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I lost it last night...vent

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I posted yesterday about my friend having a baby. I went to see her last night with my mom. Adorable baby, but my friends husband is an ars. He's bragging about how much money he's making, saying how my friend told him they would have sex and he was to 'drive it hard' to start labor...in front of my mother!!! My friend didnt hear any of this because we were in the hall while she nursed. Anyway, I got home late and my husband was being whiny. Pile that on top of being stressed about work, the holidays,etc and I lost it. Hysterical crying for like an hour with my husband not saying a single helpful thing. Ugh...this is going to be a loooong week.
3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
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  • JellyTwoPointOJellyTwoPointO member
    Wow. Super classy guy, that was! I'm sorry you had to go through all of that. Ugh.
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  • katharine25katharine25 member
    Klassy dude she has there. I'm so sorry his sh!tty personality is adding to your sh!tty week. :::: hugs::::
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  • Ironmom2beIronmom2be member
    Oh no, I was so busy yesterday I'm sorry I didn't check in with you. I'm sorry H wasn't being supportive, if he's anything like mine he probably didn't know what to say or do. I really hope today is better for you. Hugs
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    IVF #2 (July 2012) 17R, 8F, 5  blasts, ONE NORMAL 6dt on 7/12/2012- c/p
    IVF #3 (Sept. 2012) 39R, 25F, 13 blasts,  3 NORMALS! Freeze-all due to high E2.
    FET #1 10/23- 2 expanded blasts, Beta #1 11/1- 113, Beta #2 11/4-351, Beta #3 11/7- 1213
    Hailey Michelle born July 12, 2013

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  • edenriversedenrivers member
    Hugs to you. All I can say is, that guy is gross!
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  • cold0009cold0009 member
    Wow!  ((Hugs)) to you today, hope things get better!

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  • ProfessorPedals825ProfessorPedals825 member
    I'm sorry.  I hope today treats you better.

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  • MuffinhbMuffinhb member
    Im sorry (hugs)

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  • MJM3108MJM3108 member

    I'm so sorry you had to deal with that douche hole of a guy... sending you (((HUGS))) and hoping today is a better day for you.

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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    ((((HUGS))))

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    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

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  • HollyBee1022HollyBee1022 member
    Whoa, that guy sounds like a tool! Sorry you had a rough day -- hope today is a better one!
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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    Oh sweetie that is hard. I would have throat punch him. Seriously what do these people think when they talk about stuff like that?
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  • MrsRiceARoniMrsRiceARoni member
    I'm sorry. I hope you don't have to deal with your friend's husband any more and that your week gets better.
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  • pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member
    Oh my, that guy sounds klassy. I'm sorry you had such a rough day yesterday, I really hope the rest of the week gets better for you!
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member

    Indifferent-To your friend's husband...

    ((hugs)) to you my dear!

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  • raashtonraashton member

    Ugh! I am so sorry you had to deal with that.  I hope that it fets better for you.

    Love and hugs, dear friend!

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