Well, she did have a very early miscarriage. I was really hoping it was just some bleeding/cramping but she saw her doc today and is having a d&c. She is feeling thankful that she only knew she was pregnant for 5 days because it wasn't long enough to get over excited.
About the ornament... I called the company and USPS today and there was nothing anyone could do. I told her that I was so sorry but I jumped the gun and sent her something and to please not open it, just throw it in the trash. She said she loved me for being so excited for her. She was actually worried about MY feelings! What an amazing friend.
Thanks for all the t&ps. Hopefully the d&c will help her get pregnant again fast!
Re: Update to my friends BFP
BFP #1 1/11/11 M/C 2/4/11
BFP #2 6/13/11 Baby E born 2/18/12
BFP #3 12/3/12 C/P 12/5/12
BFP #4 2/10/13 Baby R born 10/19/13
This is a huge part of it for her. She actually said this was better than another month of nothing (this is her 8th month trying). She was starting to worry they couldn't conceive so although she is disappointed she is now much more hopeful than she was the morning of her period last month.
Jldubb- I am so sorry for what you are going through. Snuggle your little baby close, it is nice that you have him to keep your mind in a happy, baby loving place. My thoughts are with you.