Attachment Parenting

nap in crib without drama

I have a 10 month old daughter, with whom I cosleep (I'm a single mama by choice).  I love cosleeping and don't plan to change that till she seems ready.  I would, however, like her to nap in her crib.  She sleeps in a pack-n-play at daycare twice a day with minimal drama (actually, there were ZERO tears regarding that until recently).  However, for me it's entirely different.  Even if she falls asleep nursing and I move her to the crib, the moment she touches the mattress she's awake and pissed!  I don't want to let her cry, but I usually end up being the one crying when she won't nap anywhere but on me or in the car.  Suggestions?  (I will be the first to admit that I haven't read ANY of the books on this subject.  Seriously - I don't know when people find the time to read!)

Re: nap in crib without drama

  • Both of my kids have done the exact same thing.  It is SOOOO frustrating!  They will put themselves to sleep in a crib at daycare and nap for 1.5 - 2 hours.  At home they barely nap 30 minutes if I manage to get them into the crib at all.  Apparently they expect a different level of service from mama....

    I obviously do not have a solution to the crib thing, except that I keep trying in hopes that it will become routine and DS will start napping better in there.  For times when I absolutely can't take it any more and need him to have an independent nap, what works best is for me to nurse him to sleep on a mattress on the floor and then sneak away.  

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