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BiscuitEater21
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FAS
BiscuitEater21
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I started out having a great day, but then I heard the news about the shooting. I have had to stay off the computer to stop hearing about it, I've already said my prayers for today.
Now this day just keeps getting worse it seems like. Apparently my pregnant SIL went out to the bar last night with my other SIL and BIL and I am NOT happy about it. There's nothing I can do or say of course, because it's none of my business but I'm sick because of it.
I feel like my SIL is doing this $@%# on purpose!! She supposedly had a miscarriage a couple of years ago but we don't know that she was really pregnant, but she didn't stop smoking or drinking that go around.
So I guess I'm just being stupid to think she would stop this time. We know for sure she's pregnant this time, a doctor confirmed it and she was been very sick. But I just don't want to wind up with a precious niece or nephew that might be damage from his mother's selfishness.
To be honest, I think those babies deserve to be in heaven than having to suffer here on earth. I've been praying all day about this but I just don't know what to do. I'm not even sure if this post makes any sense!
Anyway sorry for the vent.
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Re: FAS
I don't know your SIL but just because she went to bar doesn't mean she was drinking. I hung out at the bar a few times with friends when I was pregnant and never even had a sip.
I would have hated it if I thought people were judging me just for being there!
Like pps said, I still went out a lot while pregnant, I never drank, and DH was excited to have a permament DD (usually we would alternate when we would go out drinking) lol. Hopefully she wasn't drinking/smoking and is taking care of herself!