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due date changed to our Angel's birthday...

mnhudson17mnhudson17 member
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So we had our first U/S last week showing the perfectly healthy baby measuring 6 days behind what we thought based on my LMP. They changed my due date to July 26 since it was more than a 5 day difference. This new due date is the SAME EXACT day we had to give birth to our sleeping angel this past year! I have very mixed emotions about this. I know I will most likely not have this baby on the due date, but having to be excited about a date that was so horrific for us is very difficult. I figured you ladies would understand what I am feeling. Another thing is this baby was not planned, we were thinking we would wait a little longer so we could heal after our loss. This all adds to me feeling a little over whelmed at this point. Tongue Tied

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Re: due date changed to our Angel's birthday...

  • AmeliaKrisAmeliaKris member
    Wow! That's a lot to take in. Big hugs to you. Please be gentle with yourself. Maybe lay low tonight?
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  • babystolibabystoli member
    One of my friends delivered a year to the date of her miscarriage. She said as difficult as it was, she can celebrate both. And she knows she will never accidentally forget the date of her loss.
    TTC since Feb 2012. Me: 39, DH: 37
    BFP #1 5/27/12- m/c 7/9/12 @ 10w2d (cytotec induced @11w).
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    BFP #2 11/18/12  EDD 7/27/13
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  • jbranden12jbranden12 member
    ((HUGS)) I completely understand. This baby girl's eviction date is the same date as her big sister's birthday. I have very mixed emotions knowing that even if it is not the same day, it will likely be the same week. I am hoping that the joy of bringing her home will help soothe our hearts but I also want to honor the day we met our Patricia.


      Our Angel Patricia born sleeping 3/30/12 at 31 weeks
    Our Fighter Anna born early 1/8/13 at 26 weeks
    Hoping to bring home #3 due 9/9/15
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  • FreyaWin2382FreyaWin2382 member
    (((HUGS)))
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  • kewperkewper
    This is really tough.  I'm sorry you have to go through this.  I am hopeful that you will find a way that feels good to you to remember the first baby while celebrating your new baby.
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  • densquareddensquared member
    That is pretty overwhelming. I wish you the best in finding a way to honor your angel baby and welcome your new baby in the happiest way possible
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  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    I just want to help you put a positive twist on this...your new LO will always have that special connection with your angel baby.  She will always be looking down over this LO. 

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    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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  • blessedhopeblessedhope member
    wow, many hugs. I can imagine you must be feeling so many emotions right now.
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  • TAGoldenTAGolden
    I'm so sorry you're going through this. Big hugs!
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  • JuddandJessicaJuddandJessica member
    Hugs! I'm sorry you are going through that.

    I'm due the same day I got pregnant with our second angel. For some reason I remember those dates. I thought of it as kind of messege from my other babies. Maybe my angel wanted that day continue to be a happy day.

    BPF 1. Baby Girl "Petri" 12/22/11 Said goodbye 12/27/11

    BPF 2. Baby Boy "Roo" 1/20/12 Heartbeat 160b/m 2/15/12 Said goodbye 2/20/12

    BPF 3. Rainbow Baby Boy "Creed"  4/28/12 Born healthy and alive 1/5/13

    BFP 4. "Rainbow 2.0" 8/17/14 due 4/28/15

     

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