Who's got the BOTB knife?

MrsRustyGriswold · December 2012

DD had her 2yo checkup scheduled for yesterday, but Monday morning, her ear was leaking so DH took her in for that. She got an rx and all will be fine. DH let me know that the ear follow up is next Tuesday. I asked "So she still goes this Wed. and again next Tues.?" and made a comment about being at the pedi. three times in about one week. He said yes. I had to take a half day from work to get her to yesterday's appt. I was almost there when I got a text from DH that said "What appt? I cancelled today's appt." in response to an earlier text from me about being on my way to the appt. I called him and asked wtf? He had cancelled the 2yo because she couldn't get shots while sick and made an ear recheck, but not a new 2yo. I had to reschedule both for next week because the office had already filled the spots.

His response when my hormonal, 32 week, crying self called to tell him the new plan: "Chill out. Stuff falls through the cracks sometimes." Are you kidding me, DH? You could have told me about the cancellations. He's been working a ton (80-90 hours a week) but it isn't easy to reschedule my work and all that three times in a week, either. We also have a dog who is crated for surgery recovery and has to be walked 2-3 times overnight so she doesn't pee herself. And DD has been cranky from the ears and waking up. He never gets up for those either. I cannot take much more of this. I'm going to go postal.