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mollykelleymollykelley member
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So my crazy boss told me today she is not pg from her hot affair. She said she spent the whole weekend on the couch crying, and that she is devastated that she got her AF. I was right that she only thinks of herself, telling me how devastated she is after I have had a string of BFNs and an M/C. I'm just going to ignore her from here on out.

Tomorrow I go in for an HSG. Why did I not get this before, you may be thinking? Since I had a BFP they thought all was well but now they want to check. I'm not looking forward to it. I'm on Femara this cycle instead of Clomid. That stuff made me as cray cray as my boss lady... 

M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
TTC with RE since March 2012
3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
(2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
EDD 11/28/13
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  • laynesmommalaynesmomma member
    Your boss is a nutterbeans! Glad you will be off clomid.... So crazy making. I was freaked about the hsg, but it was super easy. Good luck!
    Iui #1 = unmedicated = bfn. Iui # 2 = clomid 50 mg = bfn. Iui # 3 = clomid 50 mg = bfn. Iui # 4 = unmedicated = bfn. Iui # 5 = unmedicated = bfp - miscarriage at 5 wks. Iui #6 = nov 2012 = gonal f 75, endotrim 100= chemical pregnancy/bfn
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  • mollykelleymollykelley member
    Thanks so much! I'm feeling positive about things today and ready to take the next steps on this journey.
    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
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  • ManadaManada member

    We're having our HSG tomorrow too (BOTH of us, because we're really not sure how this fertility thing will play out for either of us).....

     Good luck!   Fingers crossed that your tubes are clear, and it goes super easy...  I'm not looking forward to ours either - We were given Ponstan (to prevent cramping) from our clinic, + I'm going to take an ativan before to relax me a little, I hate having people mess around with my cervix.

     I'm sorry your boss is a super mess -- that sounds both totally inappropriate in terms of laying her emotional crap on you as well as completely insensitive!

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    queer couple - 32 (me) & 33 (my love) years old - donor sperm,

    Our IF/TTC journey since Nov 2012.

    Me: dx of DOR in Nov. 2012. Low AMH, AFC - 6, Normal FSH, SS-A (RO) Antibodies (Autoimmune issues), tubes clear, Sono (November 2013) NORMAL! <p>

    7 IUI's - December 2012-September 2013.  Medicated, Injected, Triggered.... all BFN.

    My Love:  (the amazing @Healz413)
    Normal AMH & FSH, AFC ~27, blocked tube dx'd via HSG in 2012.   Hydrosalpinx & ovarian cyst dx'd in May 2013.
    dx of Stage IV Endo & bilateral salpinectomy in June 2013.  

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    Partner IVF#1a- December 2013 - H's eggs, my Ute - CANCELLED due to low response
    Partner IVF #1b - February 2014 - H's eggs, my Ute - ER February 4 (10 retrieved, 3 fertilized), Transfer Feb 7 of one Grade 1 and one Grade 2 day 3 embryos.  1 - Day 3, Grade 1 frosty saved.   BFP - 6dp3dt via FRER, Beta #1 - 110, Beta #2 175, Beta #3 - 348, Beta #4 - 2222!, Beta #5 - 4255.  Ultrasound (6w1d) - 2 heartbearts!  

    We lost our beautiful Twin baby girls on June 18, 2014.  Tavin Sara and Casey Elizabeth were born at 21 weeks gestation and were absolutely beautiful, precious, amazing babies.  We miss our daughters every day and love them with all our hearts.

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  • tdmklmtdmklm member
    Your boss is ridiculous. Just ridiculous. She needs to get over herself. Like, yesterday. Jerkface.
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  • 2brides2brides member

    Yep. Batshit crazy...

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  • JGYJGY member

    Just ... Wow.  I hope you don't mind, but I'm going to use your boss as a reminder to myself that I should be grateful (and I am, just even more so) that I am in a stable and loving relationship with another adult, and that we are actually prepared and ready to birth and raise a child together.  No matter how out of control things might feel at any given moment.  Stick out tongue

    Good luck on your HSG.  Mine was really a breeze.  I think I had one moment where I thought "Wow, this could get really uncomfortable, and I'm not sure how much longer my poker face can hold out."  But that was also the exact moment when it was done.  And, FWIW, I got my BFP on the next cycle. 

    Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 
    TTC since 6/11
    Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
    Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
    Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
    Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN 
    Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
    Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13

    On to #2, are we crazy?
    IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP!  Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
    Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat.  Say hello to Sticky Ricki!

     

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  • mollykelleymollykelley member
    imageJGY:

    Just ... Wow.  I hope you don't mind, but I'm going to use your boss as a reminder to myself that I should be grateful (and I am, just even more so) that I am in a stable and loving relationship with another adult, and that we are actually prepared and ready to birth and raise a child together.  No matter how out of control things might feel at any given moment.  Stick out tongue

    Good luck on your HSG.  Mine was really a breeze.  I think I had one moment where I thought "Wow, this could get really uncomfortable, and I'm not sure how much longer my poker face can hold out."  But that was also the exact moment when it was done.  And, FWIW, I got my BFP on the next cycle. 

    Amen to all of that! I am also super grateful that I have an awesome partner in this, that I am going about it deliberately and not hoping for a random hookup to get KU. 

    Thanks for the encouragement on HSG. I want my wife in the room but I don't know if it is possible. I hope to get a BFP on the next cycle! Thanks!

    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
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  • JoySeattleJoySeattle member
    Your boss is crazycakes. Hope the HSGs go/went well.
    Met 07/07/05, Wedding 07/07/07, Legal Marriage Ceremony 12/9/12, Baby Boy Born 08/09/13 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • healz413healz413 member
    imagemollykelley:
    Thanks for the encouragement on HSG. I want my wife in the room but I don't know if it is possible. I hope to get a BFP on the next cycle! Thanks!

    I know that when our friends had their hsg here in Toronto the partner was allowed in the room. We are certainly counting on that for our two hsgs tomorrow and I hope you get to have your wife in yours.
    ****loss discussed*****

    We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

    Our IUIs
    with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

    Our IVFs:
    IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

    IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
    BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
    2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
    BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
    1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

    ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

    FET #1 December 2014
    Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
    BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.



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  • mollykelleymollykelley member
    Wife was in the room and it went well! Tubes open!

    In other good news, the tech told us her sister is 4 months Pg after she had hsg. She and her partner used the same bank we did. I'm hoping all this is a good sign.

    I'm crampy though an don't want to go back to work. Time to write boss an email to let her know I'm working from home.
    M&K met 8/2002 married 6/2012
    TTC with RE since March 2012
    3 missed O's, 6 IUIs = 1 BFP then 8 w M/C, 5 BFNs
    (2 unmedicated IUIs, 2 clomid IUI, 2 femara IUI)
    Shared maternity/partner IVF, transfer #1 BFP!
    EDD 11/28/13
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