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Listening to DD sniffling..

Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member
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because yet again BD didn't show for her band concert and didn't call. She only has 2 performances a year.....

Jerk.
DD(14),SD(13),SS(11),SS(9),DS(3)

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Re: Listening to DD sniffling..

  • MarSamWhitneyMarSamWhitney member
    Jeez, what a DB!!!!


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  • karleegirlkarleegirl member
    So sorry she's hurting. 2times a year is soo hard to show for.

    My ds will tell his bd about a school event then say it's no big deal. But it is too him. He likes to make excuses for bd.
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  • OoglybearOoglybear member
    :/ Sorry, he sucks. 
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  • twister22twister22 member
    What an a**. I worry about DS feeling this way in the future :(.
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  • Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member
    He's always been like this. I can seriously count the number of events he has been to on my fingers and she's almost 13. She however still looks for him at everything and gets upset every time. I understand not being able to make something for a valid reason, but he could call before and let her know so she's not looking for him and asking us to wait longer in case he is there. If he only knew....his other DD is only 3 so he hasn't yet realized what these things mean to the kids because he's never been there for DD in that way. I hope someday he realizes and seriously apologizes for his lack of attendance. I mean, if he only knew that sometimes we have been to 6 games for my SKs in one week he would know he has it so easy when it comes to this stuff....
    DD(14),SD(13),SS(11),SS(9),DS(3)

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  • Littlejen22Littlejen22 member
    It was hard not to blast him in your FB post.

    Have you told him how upset she gets?
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  • Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member

    imageLittlejen22:
    It was hard not to blast him in your FB post. Have you told him how upset she gets?

    Yeah, I know. I wanted to post something about him myself but I refrain from posting about BD or BM on FB because soon enough the kids will have a FB and I don't want that stuff to be on my timeline history.

     My ILs come to everything for all the kids and took us out to dinner afterward and they are still astonished he never shows because they know DD gets upset. Everyone knows how sorry he his as a parent. He truly is one of those that only acts like a parent on "his time" with her.

    I've tried telling him before but he always comes up with an excuse...his DD was sick, ect...Ok, but can you call her? I don't make excuses for him anymore. I just tell her that it looks like he didn't make it and that I'm sorry and that she did great. I buy the DVD of the performances and she usually takes it over there with her so they can still see it and that usually makes her feel better and we get those in a week later.

    DD(14),SD(13),SS(11),SS(9),DS(3)

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