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just as I thought...good luck to those who are looking for help

Give me a break...grow up. Don't tell me about big girl panties. Thanks to the few of you who posted replies that actually have some common sense. good luck to you all with your pregnancies. I must have missed how this board has been snarky for years... and my other two pregnancies were a while back...so perhaps it was some other nicer board I was on and i forgot about it.

There is a HUGE difference between what some of you call tough love and helping someone who is new at this through those crazy scary first months when every hope and fear is wrapped up in the "What if, what does it mean, why does it feel this way...etc.

I hope when you're in the same boat, someone has more patience with you. Heck, i hope when you have this child, you have more patience with it. Tough love--please. you're being B*^%$es and you know it.

I'm out of here. going back to the adult board. Thanks.

I'm too old and too mature to need this.

Best of luck to you. and those that are here for the right reasons--stick it out. There are good folks here, just pass over the other comments and keep your chin up.

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  • An adult wouldn't post this high schoolish diatribe announcing departure when no one would notice if you just left.  You are creating drama and being an attention whore.


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    Give me a break...grow up. Don't tell me about big girl panties. Thanks to the few of you who posted replies that actually have some common sense. good luck to you all with your pregnancies. I must have missed how this board has been snarky for years... and my other two pregnancies were a while back...so perhaps it was some other nicer board I was on and i forgot about it.

    There is a HUGE difference between what some of you call tough love and helping someone who is new at this through those crazy scary first months when every hope and fear is wrapped up in the "What if, what does it mean, why does it feel this way...etc.

    I hope when you're in the same boat, someone has more patience with you. Heck, i hope when you have this child, you have more patience with it. Tough love--please. you're being B*^%$es and you know it.

    I'm out of here. going back to the adult board. Thanks.

    I'm too old and too mature to need this.

    Best of luck to you. and those that are here for the right reasons--stick it out. There are good folks here, just pass over the other comments and keep your chin up.

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    Really? Seriously? You are definitely not even remotely "too mature" for anything on TB. Another thread whining? You sound like a child. Take your own advice and grow up and stop crying in your cheerios about how other people act on a public message board. Its not becoming at all. 

    Also, please define "right reasons"? Why do the people posting here have to conform to your standards? What makes you so high and mighty that we should all aspire to behave like you?

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    An adult wouldn't post this high schoolish diatribe announcing departure when no one would notice if you just left.  You are creating drama and being an attention whore.

    This....or if you needed to post it, you should have just put it on your original post instead of making an whole new post for everyone to comment on. 

    Now I have to follow 2 posts instead of just one. My clicking finger is going to hurt by the end of the day, thanks a million!

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  • Another one? Usually people who claim to be mature aren't. Kinda like saying "I am more humble than you" KWIM?
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    Give me a break...grow up. Don't tell me about big girl panties. Thanks to the few of you who posted replies that actually have some common sense. good luck to you all with your pregnancies. I must have missed how this board has been snarky for years... and my other two pregnancies were a while back...so perhaps it was some other nicer board I was on and i forgot about it.

    There is a HUGE difference between what some of you call tough love and helping someone who is new at this through those crazy scary first months when every hope and fear is wrapped up in the "What if, what does it mean, why does it feel this way...etc.

    I hope when you're in the same boat, someone has more patience with you. Heck, i hope when you have this child, you have more patience with it. Tough love--please. you're being B*^%$es and you know it.

    I'm out of here. going back to the adult board. Thanks.

    I'm too old and too mature to need this.

    Best of luck to you. and those that are here for the right reasons--stick it out. There are good folks here, just pass over the other comments and keep your chin up.

    Obviously. Since you had to make a seperate post replying to comments on your previous post.  

    There is a lot of duplicate posts that could be prevented from

    a) reading the previous posts (there is a search bar)

    b)calling your OB

    c) using Google

    It's obnoxious to reply to the same questions almost daily. People are just lazy.

    I hope your adult board greets you with fuzzy puppies, and cupcakes celebrating your return. Don't let the 1st Tri door hit you in the @ss on the way out.  

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  • Crap. Now I have to find another post.

    for the record, I agree to an extent. There is a difference between correcting misinformation and being completely disrespectful. However, you probably could have just moved on and left it at that. Unfortunately posts like these just get ridiculed and don't change opinions. 



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    Theres really only a few sour apples in the bunch. Unfortunately not everyone is going to act the way youd like them to. Trust me Ive tried to fight the cause many times.

    Advice... dont post threads like these... you will just get a ton of backlash. Also, dont bother trying to make the bullies change because they wont. 

    Best advice - take the negativity with a grain of salt & move on. Make nice with the people that are nice to you. After a while the sour apples really begin to stand out - just avoid them if you dont want to deal with them.

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  • I really don't want to be snarky or a betch or anything, but which board is the adult board?
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    Is it the XXX board?

     

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  • OP, how 'bout you post the same thing 16 more times.  I'm sure that will change everyone's opinion and this board will be a sh*tstorm of butterlies, bows, and rainbows.  Or, how 'bout you leave TB and find an internet site worthy of your uppity as*.   
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  • Well, dang. What did I miss while the internet was down?  

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    I have to agree with this ... Even though I'm "mature" and all. Confused

    This isn't one of the loss boards, where I think people actually go when they need support, it's 1st Trimester. And if you can tolerate everyone on here without wanting to give a snarky response every once in a while, then you deserve a medal. (And you're a lying liar who likes to lie and loves to stir up trouble.)

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  • Wait, we have an adult board?!? Does being over 30 qualify me? LMK

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  • Oh my gosh I'm so shocked with how hateful everyone is being.
  • Well, you're the first person who's ever said this in the 10 years I've been on The Knot/Nest/Bump and I'm SURE that you're the person that will make us all see the light.

     

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    Bwahahahaha!!  Love it!

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    Oh my gosh I'm so shocked with how hateful everyone is being.

    Do you have the same awesome shocked face as the etrade baby??

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    Is it the XXX board?

     

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  • sigh. Clearly I'm not as good at being snotty as some of you, so I'll bow out. And i'm sure those of you who are the best at it are already mounting your reply of "didn't you say you were going away" so don't bother. You'll not hear from me again. I was simply disturbed enough by all the snarking that I felt compelled to comment. No, I didn't think that anyone would have a change of heart and I didn't post a second thread just to draw more attention to myself. I was just disturbed by the tone of some of the replies and thought it was very unfortunate for those women who were on here looking for support and kindess--and yes you can be realistic in your reply and still be kind. All the snarking about my calling out the snarking mostly just proves my point. I only came back to check on this again in the hopes that there were more positive comments that negative. Oh well.

    carry on....

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    sigh. Clearly I'm not as good at being snotty asnbsp;some of you, so I'll bow out. And i'm sure those of younbsp;who are the best at it are already mounting your reply of "didn't you say you were going away" so don't bother. You'll not hear from me again. I was simply disturbed enough by all the snarking that I felt compelled to comment. No,nbsp;I didn't think that anyone would have a change of heart and I didn't post a second thread just to draw more attention to myself. I was just disturbed by the tone of some of the replies and thought it was very unfortunate for those women who were on here looking for support and kindessand yes you can be realistic in your reply and still be kind. All the snarking about my calling out the snarking mostly just proves my point. I only came back to check on this again in the hopes that there were more positive comments that negative. Oh well. carry on....

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    sigh. Clearly I'm not as good at being snotty as some of you, so I'll bow out. And i'm sure those of you who are the best at it are already mounting your reply of "didn't you say you were going away" so don't bother. You'll not hear from me again. I was simply disturbed enough by all the snarking that I felt compelled to comment. No, I didn't think that anyone would have a change of heart and I didn't post a second thread just to draw more attention to myself. I was just disturbed by the tone of some of the replies and thought it was very unfortunate for those women who were on here looking for support and kindess--and yes you can be realistic in your reply and still be kind. All the snarking about my calling out the snarking mostly just proves my point. I only came back to check on this again in the hopes that there were more positive comments that negative. Oh well.

    carry on....

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    An adult wouldn't post this high schoolish diatribe announcing departure when no one would notice if you just left.  You are creating drama and being an attention whore.
    Agreed! This needed another post why?
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  • Wow, 1st Tri has GBCBs too!  Who'd a thunk it...

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  • Why did you create an entirely separate post for this instead of responding in the one you already started?

    Me-thinks someone is looking for attention. 


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