February 2012 Moms

Night weening - any tips?

So, I think night weening is probably the answer the LO's sleeplessness.  But - man it is PISSING her off.  Any tips?  DH has her right now and she is kind of calm for 30 seconds or so and then just angry yelling again.  This has been going on for a half hour.  I nursed her at 1:30 (it's 4:30 now), so it's not a hunger issue.   Thanks!!
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Re: Night weening - any tips?

  • You are sure it isn't hunger? If she is going through a growth spurt it could be...

    Eowyn weaned herself completely when she started sleeping in her own bed. Unless she is going through a growth spurt, teething or mama starts working. Then all bets are off.

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  • I'm pretty sure it's not hunger... but then I always doubt myself and nurse.  her cry last night was def. an angry tantrum cry and different than any i've heard so far. 
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  • Madison does an angry, screaming nothing will calm her down cry for two reasons: teething, or cold/cough.  Last night she had one of those episodes, and she's been fighting a cold for 5 days.

    She woke up every night from 6-8 months.  I was going crazy and it was really bad when she's teething.  One night I decided I had enough, so for a few days I only gave her 2oz to get back to sleep.  By the third night I let her CIO.  The first  night she cried for 20 mins, the second night for 10 mins, and by the third night she STTN.  Now she STTN most of the time unless she's teething or sick.

    I never, ever thought I would do CIO but it worked for us.  Instead of giving her a bottle before bed, I give her oatmeal mixed with yogurt, and that fills her up more then the bottle, so I was confident she wasn't waking up hungry and I wasn't questioning myself as to if I should just give her a bottle and if she was hungry.

     

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  • IMO she is just not used to what you are asking her to do now. It's different and it's going to take a little time for her body to work through it. I know it's hard but hopefully if you just power through it for a few nights you will start to see improvement. Keep us updated.
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  • My sleepeasy solution suggests you wake her an hour before she'd usually want to eat - feed her the usual amount of min, then the next night, same thing but 2 min less. Repeat til you are out of min .

    Sounds simple right? I think they are batty and I haven't done this yet. They say it works though...so if you wanna try...GL!

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  • L used to only wake 1 time per night and then around 7 months when he got sick for like 2 months he was up 2-3 times per night.  About a month ago I was tired of getting up that much and decided to night wean.  I let him cry it out and to be honest it sucked.  I can't do check ins and DH was gone when I did it, so I just let him cry (I could see him on the monitor).  The first night he cried 45 minutes, the next 30, and so on.  He would still wake occasionally even weeks later and I would just let him cry and usually by 10 minutes he was back asleep and would sleep until 6 AM.  At that point I feed him and put him back in his crib for another 2 hours until we get up at 8. Lately, he is teething, so if he gets up anytime after 4 AM I feed him (been 8 hours since he last ate). 

    We are getting ready to go out of town for 3 weeks and I don't think weaning that last feeding is worth my time since his sleep will most likely be crap while we are gone anyway.  I will tackle the last one when we get back =).   Good luck!

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  • I haven't done it yet because he really is eating.  I doubted it but had to travel for work.  At 1 AM I pumped 6 ozs, and again at 5 AM.  After introducing full scale solids (3rd foods and table foods) he dramatically decreased his daytime BM intake.  I know he gets 8-10 oza EBM at day care.  I send what I can pump.  But he's also still nursing at night.  You might try pumping at night just to see (I know it's a PITA) how much she is really eating.  My first comfort nursed for sure, my third is chowing down.  If she is eating, my pedi suggests waking her early, feeding her.  Feed more through the day.  Feed before YOU go to bed in addition to when SHE goes to bed.  And hope for sleep and let her CIO.  I am a fan of the idea of decreasing the time though...not cold turkey.  UGH not looking forward to doing this myself....
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