I am at a point where I am pissed off, I actually do know my exact conception date (long story) But they keep basing my EDD on my LMP. I feel like no one is listening to me!
When I took the dating ultrasound she said it "could" be around the date that I think I would deliver but she would rather stick to the date calculated my my LMP.
At first I didnt care either way since I had decided to do a homebirth but since Cigna had flat out refused to pay for the midwife (longer story) unless she bills under a physican (which I understand to be illegal). I am now being forced into an OB/hospital situation.(Sidenote: I would love to be able to pay OOP for a homebirth but I could not find anyone for less then 6K and we just brought our first home about 5 months ago so we just dont have the extra to spend)
Anyway Mr. Almighty OB says that he "doesn't mind" letting me go to 41 weeks (gee thanks!) but after that we would"have to induce". Now I will be honest, my exact reply was "So are they going to drag me out of my house and inject me with Pitocin?" . The only response that he had was its hospital policy. So not only do they have the wrong flippin due date they want to induce me almost a full 2 weeks ahead of when I know I'm really due!!. I also have a history of having late babies. (My son was 42wks2days but I was only in labor 6 hrs total)
So my question is the above title, can a hospital refuse to admit me if I refuse induction?. I know for a fact that my OB will probably schedule me for an induction, I just have no intention of showing up.
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Do you mean that if you refuse the induction and then show up in labor, can they refuse to admit you? No. Under the federal Emergency Medical Treatment and Active Labor Act (EMTALA), a hospital cannot simply refuse you care if you are in active labor, if it is a Medicare-participating hospital (which almost all US hospitals are). You can Google EMTALA for more details.
Do you have time to find another doctor?
Can I ask where you live? 41 weeks seems ridiculous! I've always heard that it's safe even past 42 weeks. I have a PG friend in Australia right now who is 43 weeks and they are just now starting to talk about induction. This is what I hate about living in America. Our birth system is so messed up.
I have no advice as I've never been there! Just wanted to say that I agree with you and the PPs had some good advice about finding another caregiver. Are there any midwifes that work in hospitals in your area? We have a whole hospital where the midwifes will treat you until the actual delivery and then you will have an OB. Otherwise it's midwifes the whole way through.
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I do still have time to find another provider, (by my estimation I am 26 weeks) so I am going to start looking.
As far as my insurance, I do kow that under NY State law I have the right to refuse any treatment so if they refused coverage as a result of my exercisig my right, I would absolutely bring a lawsuit against them.
I do still have time to find another provider, (by my estimation I am 26 weeks) so I am going to start looking.
As far as my insurance, I do kow that under US State law I have the right to refuse any treatment so if they refused coverage as a result of my exercisig my right, I would absolutely bring a lawsuit against them.
The problem I am running into is that my insurance is through my job that is based in CA and it is "self funded" so although I work in NY, they dont have to abide by all of the NY state guidelines (at least this is what I am told). Which is why they are refusing to cover a midwife.
No, the hospital can't refuse to admit you if you show up in active labor. Getting insurance to cover a birth when it's against medical advice... might be tricky depending on your insurance.
I would look for a new provider ASAP - to correct the due date and to allow you to go to at least 42 weeks (even if you have to do NSTs in the last week to prove the health of baby).
What was the EDD based on the dating ultrasound? I would expect a new provider that is unfamiliar with you to base the EDD on the u/s and not just take your word for it when you say you know the conception date. Early u/s are pretty accurate and I am personally comfortable using that as the basis for an EDD. Just something to think about when looking for a new provider. They'll ask for your records from your previous doc, so you won't be able to just lie about your LMP to get the EDD you want.
I went through the same problem with DS1. Based on my LMP he was due December 4th and based on my charting due December 9th. The early ultrasound backed up my chart but they refused to change it saying it didn't matter.
Then of course when I was 40 weeks they started talking induction and I was against it cause I knew they were 5 days off and my bishop score was low. When I hit 41 weeks I insisted on a NST test etc... before I would consider induction and we did it and all was well, so they gave me a few extra days.
I was lucky and went into labor that night on my own, my water actually broke lol. So DS1 was born December 12th which was 3 days past due according to me but 8 according to them.
I say based on what you know, insist on a Bishop Score and a NST before making any decisions. That way you have an educated logical decision to make on whether to fight or go on with an induction.
Good luck!!
I saw you said you are only 26 weeks, then yeah I would go ahead and find a new practice and explain your situation before committing. I just switched and found a practice much more supportive of natural birth.
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If going to another Dr. and/or hospital is not an option, try to work with him to change your due date. You could possibly make an agreement that if he accept your true EDD that you will except induction at 41w 1d. (Get it in writing that your official due date is the date you agree on.)
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Do you have anything to document this? I am pretty sure this is untrue. I've been trying to research this a bit this evening and have only found this:
https://vbacfacts.com/2008/07/05/does-insurance-pay-when-you-leave-the-hospital-ama/
I am pretty sure they would find it hard to say that labor and delivery is not medically necessary considering the baby has to come out somehow. I would really like to know your source and be sure this isn't just some scare tactic.
However, I do agree that the least stressful and most prudent course of action is to find a provider who is more in line with your birth philosophy. You can also ask for testing to be done to check to see if you need an induction.
ETA: And I found this
https://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2010/05/will-insurance-deny-payment-if-you-leave-ama/
https://www.ama-assn.org/amednews/2012/07/02/bise0705.htm
Switch doctors!
Do you have any early first trimester u/s? I had one around 5-6 weeks, and then another at a different hospital at 20ish weeks. The second one dated me ten days ahead of when I knew I was due, and luckily my MW understood and went by the early date. I would push any earlier u/s dates you have when you switch.
I'm with pepomnt about AMA and insurance, I don't think it actually happens.
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I believe that it happens sometimes. Insurance companies love to find reasons not to pay out on a claim. But I wouldn't agree to an unnecessary induction just because of it.
It is kind of weird for them to say a spontaneous labor was AMA because you weren't induced. How can *birth* can be against medical advice? The baby has to come out, and it's not like we're talking about elective cesareans (which I also think insurance should cover FWIW).
Yeah, I dunno. It just seems like it wouldn't hold up under legal scrutiny - if a mom and baby are on record as being healthy, exactly what you said. Women have got to start taking hospitals/insurance providers/doctors to court over birth rights, man!
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Totally. I think VBAC bans are BS from a legal POV too. How can you tell a woman she *can't* allow a normal physiological function of her body to happen? It's all crazy, all of it.