I rarely post, but I need to vent and it's 6am so you guys are my best outlet.
DH is great most of the time. Tonight I want to kick him. He pushed hard to crib transition DD. I'm not really ready, but I agreed. I won't CIO so we've gone from sttn to getting up 2 or 3x/night which is extra tiring bc I ep so I'm already up 2x/night for that. DH doesn't do any night wakings bc he works and I sah for now.
Tonight he got up with her. I followed him in to see if he wanted me to take her or bring him a bottle while I pumped. He was half asleep with her in her chair w the footrest up. She on the other hand was wide awake and squirming. I took her, changed her, got a bottle ready and came back to him sleeping in her chair. I ask him to move and he wants to feed her. He feeds her w his feet up, doesn't rock her and then brings her to our bed wide awake bc "she'll just fall asleep with you" in our bed. Um. No. She won't. Not when she hasn't been rocked at all and she's ready to play. So after 10 minutes of her pulling my hair, chatting and pinching me, she starts to fuss and I get up with heras he snores away. I now have a playful awake baby, still have to pump after I get her back to sleep and now I feel stabby. Ugh! I am so frustrated with him! It's not help if you only do it halfway in the laziest possible manner!! Thanks for listeningbless you if you made to the end of my long winded rant!