They let me keep mine. I didn't have to sign a paper but I did have to remove it from hospital premesis immediately. It couldn't go to postpartum with me. My sister took it.
They let me keep mine. I didn't have to sign a paper but I did have to remove it from hospital premesis immediately. It couldn't go to postpartum with me. My sister took it.
This. My doula took mine home with her and encapsulated it. My OB did give me a weird look when I requested to keep it.
I've never experienced a hospital staffer refuse to give a placenta to the mom. I have very often experienced them telling the mom they shouldn't be giving it to her, however, and handling it off to her in a sly fashion.
It seems weird and culturally insensitive to tell a mother she *can't* have her own placenta, at least if there is a family member willing to take it home, therefore eliminating any kind of biohazard risk. I wonder about the legality of that.
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I would think most hospitals will let you have it provided you sign some paperwork. Just let them know ahead of time. If you have any complications though, your doctor may want to send it to pathology. This might be something to consider otherwise it should be yours to keep.
I wouldn't say that it is the norm here in Southern California for women to encapsulate their placentas, but it is much more common than it used to be. I have never heard of a hospital around here (greater LA or SD areas) refusing to give it to a woman or her practitioner. With my first pregnancy, I had a hospital transfer from a birth center and had no issue getting it from the backup OB. This time, I will be in a university hospital birth center and it's also pretty standard for people to ask for it. Best wishes!
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Call L&D or ask your Dr. but it is my understanding they cannot refuse to give it to you. But you may need to do some things prior to giving birth (i.e. paperwork and such) to get it.
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Tell them you want to keep it but don't tell them why. Though it may be policy that you can keep it, sometimes when a person disagrees with you things "accidentally happen." My sister wanted hers and the nurse in the corner sneered that it was disgusting. She never got it and to this day I think it is because that woman tossed it on purpose. She just wanted to plant a tree with it.
You will need to check with the hospital. If they say no, check with your state just to be sure. Some states have special leeway for "products of conception". With DS1, I was told I couldn't have it without a fight. Only later did I learn that this is contrary to state law.
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This. My doula took mine home with her and encapsulated it. My OB did give me a weird look when I requested to keep it.
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