H and I are going to be filing for divorce. We have a 2 year old and another baby on the way in February. I had a CS with my first and was planning a VBAC for this baby but since I'm going to be on my own, I'm wondering if I should abandon the idea of a VBAC and just do a scheduled CS. That way, I know when I need to have someone take care of my DD and I don't have to stress her out if she wakes up without Mommy or something.
One of my friends has offered to be my birth partner if I still want to try for a VBAC but I don't know...it will feel weird not having my H there. It will be even weirder if he IS there though so I don't want that either.