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I want Spice

MR.&MrsMR.&Mrs
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DH and I have been together since '05. Since we our first month TTC I haven't been into sex. I honestly think I got burned out by having sex everyday for a month. Today is CD 70 and I haven't been interested in sex for the last few weeks. I know the problem is that DH only wants straight missionary with not frills or thrills. Yes, I have talked to him about it. I don't think he knows what to do. So I am asking how do you keep your sex live spicy or how did you spice things up? 
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  • WashingtonQueenWashingtonQueen member
    Outfits and role playing.
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    Outfits and role playing.

    Thanks I have few but after a while they get boring too. Guess its time to pull them out again. 

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    Outfits and role playing.

    Thanks I have few but after a while they get boring too. Guess its time to pull them out again. 

    Get some new ones. And toys are fun too.

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  • gamergirl522gamergirl522
    I'd start by changing sex to eod instead of ED. I personally like the occasional bondage. ;.
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  • Kay522Kay522 member
    Porn.
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  • wearebirdswearebirds member
    imageWashingtonQueen:
    Outfits and role playing.


    My DH is one who appreciates new sexy outfits. We've been together 11 years and even though I don't pull them out as often, when I do.....hmmm.
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  • Jellyfish42Jellyfish42 member
    My coworker tells me all the time to role play, buy wigs, pull out whips. She a freak in the sheets apparently. She's also 50 something and been married for 20 years, so I take notes. ;
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  • MR.&MrsMR.&Mrs
    Thanks ya'll I have some wigs from halloween. And, tomorrow is DH's night off so hopefully we can have fun. 
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  • VitaLunaVitaLuna member

    Do something you don't normally do. If he always initiates, try initiating. If you never put on sexy clothes, buy something new to try on. Try a different location (vs. just the bed), and try different positions (I know you said DH is stuck on one, but in the midst of it, most men will do as you say :) Or get a couple toys (just shopping for them online or in-store might spice things up). 

    Of course, these are all just suggestions. I can't speak from experience, because sex has been almost a chore since we started TTC. :(

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  • charlydoomcharlydoom member
    I suggest porn, mostly just because if you watch a variety of it, you will find out what he likes (and so might he). If you don't like porn or disapprove of it, then you can always take the long road and just try ever trick in the book until you both find something.
    and of course, a simple pair of handcuffs can go a long way... ;)
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  • kgoldsmith1023kgoldsmith1023 member
    Sometimes just a few days of break makes you desire it some more. ED is crazy...I would be tired of it too lol
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  • jeffsjaymejeffsjayme

    I'd fix the "every day for a month" problem....I can't imagine an outfit that will make that better!  Are you using OPKs to help you anticipate when you'll ovulate better?

    BTW -- I totally relate.  Last cycle was 50 days.  Cycle before that was 80 days, so I totally get it. 

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    One dear, being naughty is one of my specialties. Ho, ho, ho it up!

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  • jaytee16jaytee16 member

    I second PP's who suggested sexy outfits and toys.  We had so much fun online shopping for our toy that alone got us in the mood!  Then, of course, when the toy actually arrived we were excited to give it a try!  I've also recently starting reading some racy books/stories which help put ideas in my head, sometimes it can be hard to come up with new stuff!  

    Do you know why your DH only wants to do missionary?  I would have a hard time thoroughly enjoying our sex life and keeping it spicy if I couldn't get off my back!

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  • darjeelingdarjeeling member

    Your title reminds me of Dune.  Sounds like you've gotten some good advice!  

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  • MR.&MrsMR.&Mrs
    Thank you ladies. DH is off work tonight and I have researched some different positions. So, I'm hoping after church we can try out a few of ya'lls suggestions. ;)
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