The Pregnant Chicken, she is wise.
https://www.pregnantchicken.com/pregnantchickenblog/2012/11/9/whyyoureneverfailingasamother
Sorry it isn't clicky; I'm on my phone.
ETA: craptastic mobile strikes again! It took out the dashes. Anyway, google pregnant chicken why you are never failing as a mother. You'll be glad you did.

Natural miscarriage @ 5w2d 5/25/11
Re: S/O feeling overwhelmed
You're my hero! :]