I feel like its time to introduce a routine, not a schedule, but a routine to do after his last evening bottle so he learns a bed time trigger. I want to do bottle, bath, jammies, song, bed. DH thinks he doesn't need a bath every day yet, but I think it's not much of a routine if you take out the bath. So, what do you do?
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The bath really helps to relax LO so it is definately an important part of our routine.
We do bath, lotion/baby massage, breast, bed.
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We do bath. It's only 5-10 minutes (sometimes less). I combine bath, playtime, and singing all in one. She usually chews on a rubber ducky or some other rubber toy while I bathe her and sing to her. She loves it. It helps relax her and I'm pretty sure she knows it's "about that time" for bed. Right after bath I get her ready for bed in pj's. Sometimes this includes a short lotion massage, it depends on her mood. If she is already cranky we skip lotion time. After jammies I take her to bed with me and sideline nurse her. She's always eaten as she's falling to sleep (since birth). No matter how many ways I tried I just cannot feed her first. The key is consistency though. As she gets older we'll introduce story time. Right now she isn't interested.
Bathtime is quite literally an activity to help her unwind. I've heard of giving a bath but not using any soap. I'm not too strict about the soap I use, but she loves the Johnson and Johnson nighttime lavender.
We established a routine when we did sleep training at six months. I wish I'd done it sooner. It helps him to know what is coming.
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At that age we did bath (soap every other day), lotion, jammies, swaddle, nurse, bed.
When she got a little older, we would put a space heater in her room and lay down a blanket and have naked time before jammies and read some books and sing songs with Violet--and then the rest of the routine.
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We have never done a bath every day (definitely more frequently during the summer/days we go to the park, etc.). Too much on her very sensitive skin and she just doesn't get that dirty.... When DD was younger we would do bathtime during the day, because it was easier than trying to squeeze it in at night. We shifted it to after dinner when she started eating all solid meals, because they can get so messy! lol...
So now we do dinner, bath (every other night), jammies, a little playtime w/Daddy (time permitting), book, reciting the animals on her Noah's ark nightlight, throwing her three lovies into the crib and waving goodnight to them, then sleep.
FWIW, DD doesn't seem bothered at all if there is no bath on a given night.