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Think I'm off my rocker

Petunia844Petunia844 member
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When I'm working out I start thinking how its pointless because I'm just going to (hopefully) get pregnant again in a few years and have to start all over...then I catch my crazy self thinking we should just have another one soon so I can once in for all get back in shape and stay there. I seriously have to be insane.  I was pregnant for almost two years, still trying to figure out life with a baby, learning how to do that without arguing with my husband... It amazes me that I would seriously have that thought.  Goodness, I gotta my IUD in fast before we do something crazy!
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Re: Think I'm off my rocker

  • drvst8drvst8 member
    I've had the same thoughts lately. But I don't know if I could handle another pregnancy right now mentally or physically. Being pregnant for 2 years has taken its toll. Thank god I restarted my meds because it keeps me from being stupid. No pregnancies while i'm on the orencia. I really want another baby but its not going to be for a couple of years. but not too long because I will be 31 i a couple of weeks and DH will be 38 soon. I totally get what your saying though.
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  • JulyMomma2U2JulyMomma2U2 member
    Hahaha.. better do it quick, or you'll end up like me :)  KU when DS was 3 months!!
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  • tbone_bridetbone_bride member
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    Dh said today that he wants to start trying again in a few months. I almost flipped out. I couldn't imagine getting ku anytime soon. I told him we could discuss it when I start getting
    8 hours of sleep in a single stretch.


    Haha this is awesome!

    I find myself wanting another, but 2 is it for us. I am 38 and DH is 41. I now know why women have babies when they are young, I am exhausted!!! But two is a good number. Remind me if this when I want another.....
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  • tetiananinatetiananina member
    I don't think your off your rocker. I'm interested to see how our first year goes. That's how long we said we would wait to decide when to try again. I won't get on BC so I'm hoping we make it through the first year but I don't think I would be upset if it happens soon. My only thoughts is I want Jackson to get spoiled and enjoy just us for awhile. But being pregnant again doesn't worry me. Not sure that's a good thing

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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member

    My IUD was a PRIORITY!  I got it right at 6 weeks.

    As for weight loss...yes, you'll have to start all over again if you decide to have another.  However, most of the complaints I hear from women with multiple children after multiple pregnancies is how hard it is to lose the weight because they only compiled more on with each pregnancy.  I think it would be easier to lose the weight after this pregnancy, and then do it again after the next.  Muscle memory?  That was one of my rules.  I had to atleast be down to my pre-pregnancy weight before even discussing another pregnancy.  I wish that was my only reason for not getting pregnant again....

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