Adoption

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Hi ya'll im Aria! I am a student right now studying special education and minoring in neuroscience, behavior and cognition. I have a 3 yr old daughter who is the love of my life she is expressive, beautiful, loving and silly. She also happens to have down syndrome. I have unfortunatly found myself in the position of being a single mom to her and ending up pregnant alone again.

I am not to far along into this pregnancy but have known that I cannot financially, emotionally, physically care for a special needs child and a plus one by myself. It pains me but mothering is about sacrifice and I feel that this is the ultimate one I have to make. I hope that its ok that I join this group and get to talk to some of the people involved here!

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  • Welcome.  I'm pretty new here, but I'm sure you will find some support and excellent advice.  Also, I'm a sp. ed. teacher too! 
    TTC our first, both age 29 BFP#1 Twins, Missed MC with complications (long story) BFP#2 CP DX: DH-no issues Me-PAI-1 1/2013 Hysteroscopy/Laparoscopy to remove polyp and adhesions March 2013 IUI #1 with Follitism + Trigger
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  • Welcome!

     We are a mix of people with many different and diverse experiences in regards to adoption. As I wait to be an adoptive mom, I have learned so much about the adoption process from the many perspectives found on this board.

  • Welcome and best of luck to you as you go through this pregnancy and have to make decisions. Praying for you!
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  • Thank-you I need the prayers!
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  • Welcome! This board has provied my husband and I great support while we wait to be matched with a birth parent. I hope that it provides the same to you. Best of luck in your journey!
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  • Welcome. Please feel free to join us, and post often. You'll find some other expectant moms here, as well as some birthmoms who have made adoption plans, adoptive moms (both domestic and international) and a few adoptees. Sending good thoughts as you make your decisions.
  • Welcome to the board : ). As previous posters have said, we are a mix of expectant moms, birthmoms, adoptive parents, people that want to adopt, and adoptees too.  This is a great board, I think you will find a lot of support here.  : ) 


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  • Thank you everyone for th welcome, I look forward to be apart of this group!
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  • Hi, and welcome!  I'm pretty new here myself, but I have gotten a lot of info and support from everyone as I'm waiting to become an adoptive parent. I think you'll find some great folks on this board from all parts of the adoption experience. Thoughts and prayers to you.

  • Welcome!  There is lots of support here!
  • Welcome to the board!

    TTC September 2010 thru October 2011
    SA February 2011: Normal
    RE App. October 2011 - Recc. Clomid and IUI

    Taking a break from TTC to pursue adoption

    Met our 2 year old son in Russia July 2012!
    Court trip October 2012
    Home November 24 2012!

    Back to RE Summer 2013. TTC journey continues: 

    Dx DOR, endometriosis, low sperm count 
    Clomid + IUI#1, #2 = BFN / IUI #3 = ???

    Laparoscopy scheduled December 2013

    Adding a Burden
  • Welcome! I placed my birthson for adoption in 2006, and now DH and I have DS, and we're in the process of adopting internationally. If you need anything from one who's traveled the road of entrusting their child to his adoptive parents, let me know!
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    Application approved Dec '11
    Mar '12: Homestudy interrupted by change in Uganda requirements - where do we go from here?
    After searching and searching, back with Uganda but with our homestudy agency's program.
    Homestudy complete July 19
    USCIS I-600A submitted July 20. Biometrics appointments arrived Aug 17; fingerprinted Aug 21; 171H received Sept 25th. On the wait list Oct 1st: #18. By Jan 25th, we're #13!
    Come home, baby A!
  • Welcome to the board. I was adopted as an infant and am now an adoptive parent! You will find a great mix of individuals on this board with a wealth of information.

    Mother of two wonderful boys! Blessed through adoption.

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  • Hi, and welcome!  I just read this, after already replying to your newer post.  I'm so sorry you are finding yourself in this difficult position.  I can't imagine how tough it must be to make the decision you are making and the strength and love you have to follow through.

    I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers throughout your pregnancy and beyond, and I hope you find much support on this board.  I know I could not have found the support I've needed (and found here) throughout our journey anywhere else.

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