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f/u to f/u on bad ultrasound

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So I guess there is no good news for me. Went for another ultrasound today (11 days since the last one) and still no fetal pole/heartbeat. I should be 9w2d. I guess if there is nothing by now, there won't be. OBgyn wants me to come in on Wednesday to discuss D&C or natural miscarriage options.  

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BFP 10/23/07 EDD 7/5/08 Gracie born on 6/27/08 BFP 10/20/12 EDD 7/4/13 Empty sac @7w3d. Natural miscarriage @9w3d
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  • danuli8danuli8 member
    I'm so sorry. I'm very sad and shocked for you.
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  • boymamacoboymamaco member
    I'm so sorry. I've been there before and know how disappointing it is. The mc/pg loss board was very helpful for me. Hugs!
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  • ShellBear+ShellBear+ member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard this and my heart goes out to you, take care.
    TTC since Dec. 2010. Me: 37, DH: 38...unexplained RPL
    BFP #1 - missed m/c 4.18.11 found @8w3d, d&c @13w 
    BFP #2 blighted ovum found 8.2011 @8w, misoprostol
    BFP#3 - missed m/c 6.11.12 @ 9w3d, d&c revealed extra chromosome 15
    BFP#4 8.10.12, DD born 4/26/13
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  • AbeilleAbeille member
    I am so sorry you're going through this.
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  • JilliansMomaJilliansMoma member

    Oh no I am so very sorry for your loss. My T&P are with you and your family.

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  • 1220winterbride1220winterbride member
    This. The Loss Boards are a tremendous support. I am so very sorry. TP to you.

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  • kat1221kat1221 member
    So sorry for your loss:(
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  • Haribo1Haribo1
    I am so so sorry for your loss.
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  • bethz13bethz13 member

    I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs!

     

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  • MrsNukemMrsNukem member
    I'm so very sorry.

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
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    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
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  • dhreczuckdhreczuck member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, sending you hugs..
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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
    I'm so sorry to hear this! I hope you take the time you need to grieve your loss. I'm sure we'll see you back on this board soon... ((hugs))
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  • Junebug060609Junebug060609 member

    I'm a lurker, I posted here for a bit but had a m/c.  I had to respond to this post, I hope you don't mind.

    I'm so sorry you're going through this and that you've been in limbo all this time.  If you need someone to 'talk' to about the two options, I'm on the miscarriage/pregnancy loss board. 

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  • emikatemikat member
    I'm so very sorry. 
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  • Country Girl in the CityCountry Girl in the City
    I am so sorry!
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  • butterflyelvisbutterflyelvis

    I'm so very sorry for you. I know what it's like to look at that ultrasound screen and not see something where there should be something. My heart and my prayers are with you.

     

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  • technigirltechnigirl

    I'm so sorry.  :(  I've been there, and I know how it feels.  I hope you find peace and support soon.

     

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