Not really but..........I am having a prob drinking more than 1 or 2 cocktails. I keep setting out on these missions to have fun and relax and have a few cocktails (aka get drunk) and I keep chickening out after 1st or 2nd drink. I start thinking about LO needing to eat soon and already missing one feeding and I stop drinking. I have plenty of milk in my stash but I can't bring myself to pump and dump. Help! I want to get drunk!
Same here...I can't even bring myself to have any hard liquor (and I used to love dirty martinis) and finishing a glass of wine still feels slightly naughty!
Definitely not alone. DH took me out to a nice restaurant last weekend for our first date night and I made him finish my glass of wine because I felt guilty.
Same here. I have unsuccessfully tried to get drunk like 5 times. And always chicken out. My hang up is that I don't want to have to get up in the middle of the night, possibly still drunk or hungover, and have to pump. I have had about 3 bouts of mastitis and there is no sleeping through the night. I also don't want to be hungover the next day and have to deal with a needy baby. Because I am 100% positive my son would choose that day to be a real pain in the a**. Oh well. We are going out for dinner tomorrow night for a belated anniversary dinner. It also happens to be my birthday. I MAY indulge and get that dirty martini I have been dreaming about for the past 11 months....
BFP 1/24/2012 - DS Born 9/22/2012 (11 days early!)
Same here. I have unsuccessfully tried to get drunk like 5 times. And always chicken out. My hang up is that I don't want to have to get up in the middle of the night, possibly still drunk or hungover, and have to pump. I have had about 3 bouts of mastitis and there is no sleeping through the night. I also don't want to be hungover the next day and have to deal with a needy baby. Because I am 100% positive my son would choose that day to be a real pain in the a**. Oh well. We are going out for dinner tomorrow night for a belated anniversary dinner. It also happens to be my birthday. I MAY indulge and get that dirty martini I have been dreaming about for the past 11 months....
get the martini. Please!! I think if you can do it I can live vicariously through you for a moment b/c I am not sure i can get it done!
I have the same problem--I want to get tipsy (which would probably take 2 drinks at this point) but I always chicken out when I think of having to pump then dump all that BM...LO eats pretty much every 2 hours, so that doesn't give me enough time to get the excess alcohol out of my system. I've had a drink occasionally, but it wasn't enough to make me not BF her, and I'm at home so I will pour myself one immediately after her feeding. But tonight we have a baby shower for her thrown by DH's coworkers and they want to go out afterwards (I'm leaving her with my mom when we go out) But I don't want to have to go into my stash to feed her and I'm not looking forward to the full feeling of my boobs if we stay out for hours I just need to let it go and enjoy the fact that I'm doing something social for the first time since having her! Cheers
Re: Drinking problem
I guess unless you're drinking enough that you can't pump for a long time in which case you might need to just to relieve engorgement?
That's what my LC told me, anyways.
get the martini. Please!! I think if you can do it I can live vicariously through you for a moment b/c I am not sure i can get it done!