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Christmas Gift Question

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Okay so my DH wants to know what to get me... Well I have a pandora bracelet and want some new charms for it. I want one for the daughter we have but I also want one for the child we lost. Would it be too much to ask him to get them and to pick them? He had a really hard time since the loss was his first baby, but he is coming around. It would mean a lot to me if he picked them but at the same time I don't want to undue his progress he has made toward moving on... Opinions and thoughts welcome, I just have nothing else I want or need from him for Christmas... 
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Re: Christmas Gift Question

  • ColtsdadColtsdad member
    Give him the option.  Tell him it would mean a great deal, but if he's not ready, he doesn't have to.  That way, he can get the one for his daughter and can make a decision on whether or not he's ready to tackle the one for the child you lost.  That way, at least if he's not ready, he can still get you the one and get something for Christmas.
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  • jeannette&mattjeannette&matt

    I asked for the angel bead to represent the baby we lost.  I find it easier to be specific.

     

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