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Praying for a strong hb tomorrow!!

inkrulesinkrules member
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My f/u u/s is finally almost here, I'm super super nervous!  At last weeks u/s fetal pole measured a week behind & heartbeat was low at 77, since then all of my symptoms have gone away....tomorrow we finally get to see if this LO is going to make it....going to bed super early hoping that will make tomorrow come faster!  Thanks for listening....we haven't told any family or friends yet due to previous losses so it feels good to get it out!  
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  • AbeilleAbeille member
    Wishing you the best tomorrow....
    Me: 38, PCOS/ DH: 37

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  • 1Lump1Lump
    Wishing for good news for you also!
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  • 1220winterbride1220winterbride member
    Hoping and praying you get good news at your appt.

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  • kat1221kat1221 member
    Good luck today!  Let us know how it goes!
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  • bethz13bethz13 member
    Praying for happy news for you today!!
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  • ShellBear+ShellBear+ member
    I am hoping you get good news!  Please update when you can.
    TTC since Dec. 2010. Me: 37, DH: 38...unexplained RPL
    BFP #1 - missed m/c 4.18.11 found @8w3d, d&c @13w 
    BFP #2 blighted ovum found 8.2011 @8w, misoprostol
    BFP#3 - missed m/c 6.11.12 @ 9w3d, d&c revealed extra chromosome 15
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  • dhreczuckdhreczuck member
    Good luck, I hope it went well!!
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    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
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  • inkrulesinkrules member

    Sadly, no improvement was seen:(. They said there is 0% chance of survival and that we just have to wait for the hb to stop so the baby passes...I don't know that I've ever been this sad...even losing our twins at 9 weeks i Feb seemed less difficult because when we had out first u/s then they had already passed, (or maybe it just seems like it was less painful because some time has passed) yes it was a severe shock & earth shatteringly sad but this "sit & wait" for the hb to stop is torture for me:(. 

     I asked about a d&c and they said they won't schedule it until the hb has stopped "just in case" so I thought there might be hope but she said no chance so I think it's more of a liability thing....now I have to sit and wait until Monday to see if the hb stops and if not then more waiting....I would not wish this upon anyone, I feel like I should be saying goodbye to my LO but knowing there is still a hb makes it impossible:(

    I hope you all have happy & healthy pregnancies....hopefully I'll be back soon!   

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  • danuli8danuli8 member
    Ink, I am so very sorry. That is a terrible situation to be in and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Sending you strength and peace in your grief.
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  • ukmisgirlukmisgirl
    I'm so incredibly sorry and sad for you. Praying for you and your family.
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  • kat1221kat1221 member
    NOOOO!  I am so, so sorry that you are going through this.  I kept checking for an update today and I am so sad that this is it.  Thoughts and payers to you and your family.
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  • inkrulesinkrules member

    Thank you all!  I truly appreciate all the kind words, thoughts & prayers...it's been a tough few days and I think the next few are going to be even worse...however, I'm going to stay positive that I will be back (and hopefully soon as time is a huge concern for us!). 

    DH and I talked it over & we're going to try again right away, Dr recommends waiting one cycle but with his travel for his civilian job (he'll be gone 2wks in feb & 3 wks in march) and his pending deployment in April for one year that basically leaves us Jan.  Most of my research has shown that the wait is primarily for emotional reasons & to allow the uterus to recover...going to leave it in God's hands...if it's not meant to happen then we'll go back to charting, testing and fertility meds for Jan and if I have to travel to where DH is when I ovulate or we need to have some semen frozen then so be it! 

    Thanks again for listening & all the support...hope to be back soon!   

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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member
    Inkrules, you are such a strong woman. I'm so very impressed with how you're approaching this, but I'm so sorry that you have to go through this (again).

    I agree that you should just keep trying. Your body will do what it needs to be ready, so it shouldn't matter. My coworker/friend got pregnant with her daughter the month following her loss, so clearly the body can regroup quickly. I wish you the same good luck.

    And ((hugs)).
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