Reassure me again that a newborn and a toddler will be better than this pregnant with a toddler thing.
And that I'll ever have 3 seconds of alone time before Kindergarten!
And that I'll ever get to spend time with my toddler.
And that my son won't hate me for cutting his time as an only child.
And that bedtime won't be an all day event!
I'm kind of stressing a lot wondering what life is going to be like in 8 weeks or so.
Re: Feeling overwhelmed.
For me, pregnancy with little ones was way worse then when the baby got here. I won't lie the first few months until we got into a good routine was hard with ds1 and ds2. They are 15 months apart so it was like having 2 babies especially since ds1 had some speech issues.
You just have to remember to breath. If you get to overwhelmed put both in safe places and take a few minutes to regroup. The thing that was hard for me at first was letting go of the fact that at some points both would be crying and I had to make a split decision on who needed me more. One would have to cry a few more seconds/minutes more and it will not permanently scar either of them. Both my big boys are very loving, smiley, happy boys.
I'm feeling exactly the same way you are! All of your thoughts have been in the back of my head for months and now it's really starting to be all I can think about. Good luck!