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TTC After a Loss
baby101010
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BFP #7 2/4/13- EDD 10/20/13
OMG Totally inappropriate
baby101010
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SO--- a couple coworkers know about my losses ( and always love to comment on how amazed they are at how quickly I get pregnant- like I should be proud of that fact or something--- not so proud when I can't sustain the damn pregnancy)--- anyway-- one of the girls came up to me and said " anything new or exciting going on with you??? " and smiled real big and pat my belly.... I laughed real hard and said " no- nothing new or exciting" ....she then said " Oh, I think something is new and exciting"... I just kept walking and smiling. I think my smile and laughter was because I KNEW what she was getting at and I was uncomfortable and I was laughing AT her because of how inappropriate she was being ( kind of a mean laugh- does that make sense???)
So, I have been over indulging in candy and junk food lately- partly because of the holidays and partly because I am sad and candy and ice cream and pizza make me momentarily happy.... so I have gotten a bit chubby 
Its a noticable chubby.... so I think thats why she did and said what she did... but OMG.... shes lucky that I am in a good mood and having a good day- yesterday I would NOT have been nice.
Rumors and news flys through my work place like wild fire so I am sure everyone will think I am pregnant by tomorrow. WOnt they be surprised when my bloat/chubbiness doesnt turn into a baby bump. Jokes on them I guess.
BFP #7 2/4/13- EDD 10/20/13 This discussion has been closed.
Re: OMG Totally inappropriate
BFP #2 04/25/12 EDD 01/04/13(?) confirmed ectopic 05/16/12 6 wks 5 days 2 doses of MTX-Lost left tube on 05/25/12 Back to TTC, earlier than originally expected.
BFP #3 01/05/13 EDD 09/17/13 u/s 1/24/13-great appt, measuring 2 days ahead, NT scan 3/11/13-great scan measuring 4 days ahead, A/S 4/29/13-another great scan can't wait to meet my baby BOY!!!!!
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What a little b!tch. I would have put my hand on HER belly and asked, "Why? is there something new and exciting with YOU!?"
Im sorry that happened to you today. You need to order some pizza and get some ice cream and have a relaxing night. (((hugs)))
Oh wow, completely inappropriate...
If someone said that to me today, I would likely kick them in the knee!
I feel your pain. My tummy hasn't recovered fully since our loss in August, haven't really changed much of anything but the pooch has just hung around
I traveled last week and the TSA agent on the way out (I asked for an opt out on the scanner) asked me when the baby was due. On the way back the other TSA agent had her hand on my tummy and said "I think I felt something move" while she was patting me down
I know I'm bigger than I should be, but for pete's sake. I called them both out and they backpeddled by saying they just assumed every woman who opted out was pregnant - WTMF?
4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal
5 IUIs = BFN
All AL are welcome
OMFG!!
You've got to be kidding.
Life lesson ----> NEVER EVER ASSUME A LADY IS PREGGO. NEVER!
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BFP #1 3.16.12. mmc 5.7.12 at 11 weeks ~Avery Cameron~
BFP #2 12.12.12. mmc 1.22.13 at 10 weeks ~Theodore Michael~
D&C #2 Chromosome analysis results: Translocation Trisomy 14
My RPL Testing: Homozygous MTHFR, normal karyotype
DH's karyotype results: Robertsonian Translocation 13:14
BFP #3 9.10.13 mc at 4 weeks~Our little May Flower~
BFP #4 10.13.13- Our Rainbow Baby, a little girl, arrived June 25, 2014!
TTC Since 8/2011
BFP #1 5/13/12 * EDD 1/24/13 * MC at 7 wks 4 days on 6/11/12
BFP #2 5/13/13 * Current EDD 1/23/14
Baby N born 2/8/14
This. Majorly. Is she young? Is that why she's so stupid?? Or just nosy??
Probably? Holy f?cking sh?t, I'd have lost it...and probably my job as well...
It's bad enough she did that in the first place, but then to CONTINUE and insist that she has some sort of superhuman ute-vision, after you already told her no? STFU c?nt!
TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
So lost.
Word.
TTC since March 2010 ~ Dx Unexplained IF September 2011
2011: IUI + Clomid = CP#1
2012: 3 more IUIs + Clomid = 3 more CPs. One on-our-own pg, also CP
2013: BTB IUI + Lupron/Follistim/Prometrium/PIO = CP #6
IF testing, RPL testing, Autoimmune testing = all normal
So lost.
Amen!
BFP#1 05/08/12 - EDD 01/03/13 - MC 05/23/12 8w6d
PCOS diagnosis 02/13 - Started Metformin 03/13
BFP#2 04/07/13 - EDD 12/17/13
Why the heck do people think things like that are ok??? I'm sorry you had to deal with that bs. What a douchecanoe!
(((HUGS)))
BFP #2: 6/29/12, EDD: 3/8/13, Natural M/C: 7/16/12 @ 6 weeks 2 days
Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, Hypothyroidism
BFP #3: Kendall Grace, born 9/30/13
BFP #4: 9/3/14, EDD: 5/16/15, Missed M/C: 10/6/14 @ 8 weeks 2 days, D&C: 10/8/14
Never in our arms, forever in our hearts
yep.all of this. Then she could have a new & exciting black eye
Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.
June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!
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Me too WTF is wrong with people!
BFP: 2/4/13 EDD: 10/11/13
Patiently waiting for Buggirl to join me!!
Beta #1 11dpo:89 Progesterone:38.9 Beta #2 18dpo:1940
HB seen at 6w HB 8w 5d 176bpm! Its a BOY!
grow rainbow grow!!!!
All Always Welcome!!
**BFP#1 9/5/12 EDD 5/15/13 changed to 5/25/13 after u/s, missed mc 10/19/12. D and C 10/22/12**
BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20