So my boyfriend and I are 5 weeks pregnant after a miscarriage 22 weeks ago roughly. OOPs, anyways we aren't exactly excited yet do to the uncertainty and with his deployment weeks away, we are only discussing as what if's in case I do or don't carry through to the 2nd trimester. what is exciting about out pregnancy is Christmas Day will mark 12 weeks and we are trying to decide how we should tell our families considering he will be unable to skype or chat face-to-face. For immediate family ie our parents we are thinking a pre recorded video announcement, boxed and wrapped with note " DO NOT OPEN TIL CHRISTMAS!!!" with card inside containing first picture from ultrasound which I am hoping will be done at my first dr.'s appointment a week prior to the holiday. I intend to be with my family for the announcement, which I was thinking of wearing a shirt that is catchy and in the Christmas spirit of me being pregnant. is this good idea or any other suggestions? He will return when I am about 5 or 6 month.