I refuse to call baby "it" and I'm tired of saying "he or she" already. I wanted a nickname for the little one so we started calling baby Nugget. Just curious what everyone else was nick naming their nuggets?
We use 'baby' a lot or sometimes we'll refer to it as whatever fruit its the size of. That might be weird. Oh well, we just go with whatever comes out at the time we're talking.
It makes me sadto call it "it", can't explain my feelings, that's what happens when your preggers, oh well.
^^ thisss.. it just feels so impresonal if i call MY baby an IT... its gender is already predetermind even if we dont know it, and its a human just like us and i sure dont like being called an it >.< ( i call my baby "baby")
We call ours Otter. Our first that we lost was Penguin, so we just stuck with the cute animal theme.
We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.
“So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young?
I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage
is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send
me a son.” – Arcade Fire
Don't you know, if you called a child "it", they may develop gender confusion! LOL, just kidding, the snarkiness of TB is rubbing off on me I think. I don't get why people are bothered by calling a baby it either.
This little one has been nicknamed by my Hubby, "Cashew". Still in the nut family, but my daughter was nicknamed "Peanut" during the pregnancy, so Cashew it is. Love my little Cashew already.
I don't really mind calling the baby 'it'. We didn't set out for a nickname, but the baby "earned" one. My husband's nickname is ____ie Bear, so what caught on for the baby is "gummy bear". I'm sure I fit into the protective Mama Bear category too, so it all works. :P Just a little bear family.
By best friend was nicknamed cabbage patch when she was a baby so her children have been named Brussel sprout and redukio both in the cabbage family, lol
We've been calling ours "Nibbler" in reference to the Futurama character who can eat anything and everything because I was literally hungry ALL THE TIME the first 2 weeks or so after we found out.
I can't explain why, but I didn't like calling the baby "It" either. It felt too impersonal. Somehow, giving it a temporary name makes me feel more bonded to it? Maybe I'm weird, but I like having a name for it.
I say "Baby girl is hungry" sometimes... now that I think about it I don't know if I'm talking about the baby or myself because we don't know the gender yet. I think I call it baby girl bc our dog is a girl and we treat her like a child sometimes, so all babies around here are "baby girl"- watch it be a boy, poor little guy!
I've been calling it Sparky, because I'm due on the 4th of July (firecracker --> sparkler --> Sparky). Which means I've also been saying "he," because Sparky sounds like a boy to me. Saying "it" doesn't really bother me, though.
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This kid may not have a lot of bowel, but he has plenty of guts! DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome. 131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
We are impatiently awaiting the day we can say goodbye to his girlfriend Ivy for good.
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SIL and my brother call theirs "Perry"... short for Parasite...
DH calls it our little alien sometimes. We also watched Prometheus the night before I got my BFP.
FKA mimi4347: diaper rash magician and unofficial expert on excrement
This kid may not have a lot of bowel, but he has plenty of guts! DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome. 131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
We are impatiently awaiting the day we can say goodbye to his girlfriend Ivy for good.
DH and I call the baby Squishy. My friend asked me what I was going to call the baby until it was born (we aren't finding out the gender) and the first thing that popped in my head was that quote from Finding Nemo "I shall call him Squishy and he shall be mine, and he shall be my Squishy"
Ours was "snowflake" due to our last name. But after finding out it was twins its boring "Baby A" and "Baby B". However B was caught on u/s dancing so all day its been She and A is now He. Hope I don't mix those up or give one a complex! haha
I have no problem calling it "it" since I don't know if it's a he or a she. Other than that, we've mostly been calling it little squirt. Sometimes, my partner calls it Bill Clinton... he thinks it's hilarious.
DS was Noodle. When we found out Noodle was a he, I told my best friend my Noodle has a noodle. After he was born Noodle turned into Doodle and then Doodle Bug.
Re: What to call baby?
^^ thisss.. it just feels so impresonal if i call MY baby an IT... its gender is already predetermind even if we dont know it, and its a human just like us and i sure dont like being called an it >.< ( i call my baby "baby")
EDD 07/29/2017
We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.
“So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
I don't really mind calling the baby 'it'. We didn't set out for a nickname, but the baby "earned" one. My husband's nickname is ____ie Bear, so what caught on for the baby is "gummy bear". I'm sure I fit into the protective Mama Bear category too, so it all works. :P Just a little bear family.
ETA: Clarifiacation
CJ 05/29/2013
I have been calling baby biscuit here lately!
We've been calling ours "Nibbler" in reference to the Futurama character who can eat anything and everything because I was literally hungry ALL THE TIME the first 2 weeks or so after we found out.
I can't explain why, but I didn't like calling the baby "It" either. It felt too impersonal. Somehow, giving it a temporary name makes me feel more bonded to it? Maybe I'm weird, but I like having a name for it.
My two girls Flower and Ayla Faye
DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
DH calls it our little alien sometimes. We also watched Prometheus the night before I got my BFP.
DS born at 34 weeks with (surprise!) gastroschisis turned short bowel syndrome.
131 days in the NICU, 7 trips to the OR, G-button, daily TPN....
haha yes!! I posted mine before I saw this!! But yes, my thoughts exactly
Woops! Didn't hit the right button. Definitely meant to quote the person that is also calling her baby Squishy.
I called him Bubba and it stuck... I still call him Bubba a year later :-)
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I didn't have a problem with calling baby "it" before we knew she was a girl. We also called her Stormaggedon (DW joke), Spartacus, and Buddy.
This one is baby until we find out the gender so we don't confuse our 2.75 year old!
We've decided to call it "Pixie" since we think pixie sticks contributed to our little miracle!