TTC After a Loss

Un-Lurking

Guess I'll say hi, ladies.  I don't post very often but am a hardcore lurker (usually by the time I proofread my response, it seems stupid or pointless, so I don't post).  My never-ending miscarriage seems to maybe have finally ended (two days bleeding-free, woot woot).  The midwife I was seeing told me to wait two cycles and when I asked why, she said there was no reason, it was just convention.  So then she said wait at least one.  I'm pretty sure AF came last week, though I still had elevated betas the week before and was still bleeding lightly, but it really seemed like AF.  Maybe it's wishful thinking, but I'm going with it (well, we'll see what todays betas look like).  I would say I'm pretty typical in terms of mixed emotions and fears for the future, etc., but I'm counting on the fact that we're hosting Christmas this year to keep my mind off it.  I'm planning to live a little que sera sera this month.  We'll see how that goes...

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BFP #2 9/30/12, M/C 10/23/12 
BFP #3 12/16/12, CP 12/20/12 
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  • I am sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I'm glad that you decided to un-lurk and introduce yourself!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board. You will definitely get more support for yourself by being active than by lurking, so I'm glad you decided to post. 


  • Welcome and I am also sory for your loss.  Yesterday you responded on my OPK thread and just incase you didn't see it, you were right.  They did have different pics on the outside of the packages.  Thank you.



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  • Welcome to board. Post, even if others have answered the question sometimes it helps when many people post a response, even if its the same answer.
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  • Welcome, sorry for your loss, but hope you do not need to be here long!
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  • I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your stay is short and sweet.

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  • imageGatorsgirl731:
    Welcome and I am also sory for your loss.  Yesterday you responded on my OPK thread and just incase you didn't see it, you were right.  They did have different pics on the outside of the packages.  Thank you.

    Glad that worked out!  If they could put different pictures, you'd think they could label or color the packages differently so they're easier to tell apart!

    I'm sad to see some familiar names here.  No matter how often you hear how common miscarriage is, it doesn't really sink in until you're in a community like this where people are open about their experiences.


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    BFP #2 9/30/12, M/C 10/23/12 
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    Welcome to board. Post, even if others have answered the question sometimes it helps when many people post a response, even if its the same answer.

    I agree.  Seeing more of the same answer just confirms things for me sometimes.

     Welcome to the board.  I am so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss! The ladies here are amazing!
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  • I am very sorry for your loss but glad you have found this board. the women here are so supportive! Hope your stay is short and sweet!

  • Welcome to the board, although I'm sorry that you have to be here. I'm glad  you decided to come of the "lurking" status and join us! 
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  • Welcome to the board. I am sorry for your loss. I hope that you will become a more active poster, as you will certainly get to see first hand all the support and comfort that is available from the wonderful ladies on this board.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss and welcome to the board. I hope your stay here is a short one! GL
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  • I'm sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.  Don't be afraid to post - one of the great things about this board is everyone's input.

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