What are you planning to spend/have you already spent for Christmas?
M will be a year old and we have yet to buy anything but her Christmas pjs... but FI gets a HUGE holiday bonus and I'm trying to figure what an average budget is because I don't want to go way overkill and I very easily could ![]()



Re: Christmas present costs
This. It's your choice but in our family we don't really do big Christmases until the kids are 2. With that said, I'm spending about $100 per kid. $100 for my mom. $50 for DH and $100 on baking and crafts for my friends. We also do a secret Santa in DH family and the limit on that is $50.
This is about what we do. I just added it up and we're at about $325 per kid, plus that much for my youngest's birthday. (I make sure not to stiff him just because he was born a week before Christmas.)
I'm sure some would say it's excessive, but we're pretty strict about only buying stuff on Christmas and birthdays. The rest of the year, if they want something, they have to use their own money.
For the kids we are trying to keep it under $200 per kid. DD is getting Bitty Twins, so that kills a whole bunch of the budget right there, and will get PJ's, books, a DVD, and a Santa gift (I think it is going to be some ballet gear for her and the Bitty Babies, but haven't decided).
DS is getting the same number of gifts, but we are spending quite a bit less, because his "big gift" is a third of the price - a FP Little People's Wheelies Loops N Swoops playset. He is getting PJ's, books, a DVD, and a Santa gift, too. I think Santa is bringing him a FP Little People Zoo Talkers Animal Sounds Zoo Train.
DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012
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Because DS is only a little over a year at Christmas I'm not spending a whole lot. Just some shirts, shoes, a few smaller toy items (like trains and cars) that I think he would enjoy. He didn't even like opening presents for his birthday. I'm not going to bother wrapping amazing gifts that he could care less about at this age.
For the rest of the family (IL's, nephews, my parents, 2 siblings, 2 secret Santa gifts) about 250.
For DH about 200. I have no clue what DH is spending on me this year.
The first two years I didn't spend much on him (probably less than $50) because he really didn't need anything and we didn't have much space.
This year it looks like we're going to end up around $200 and I"m sure it will get higher as he gets older. We really don't buy him anything if it's not Christmas or his birthday though so I don't think it will be too much.
We also have 5 or 6 birthdays on December that are extra.
We spent 1000 on his birthday this year too. But like I said he doesn't get much during the year.. maybe like a couple of clothes some shoes and a few cars.
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
We always go completely over board for Christmas. Between my DS and SS we will probably spend close to $1000. Then another $300-$500 for my FI. I have no idea what he is getting me this year but he usually spends about $500-700. And then another $1500 for my parents, two brothers, SIL, FI's mom and step dad, brother and SIL and our 5 neices and nephews. So were looking at about $3000 total.