Real talk time

Mrs.G123 · November 2012

Real talk time

Aka Saturday night confessions. I just spent 20 minutes scrubbing the gunk that somehow accumulates near my kitchen window.

I live a glamorous life. Anyone with me???

danienross · November 2012

My dad is home and I can honestly say I didn't miss him. This week ran so much smoother without him here. I know I say this all the time but I CANNOT WAIT TO MOVE!

peanut823 · November 2012

I purposely made me n DH late for the movie so we would miss it because I didn't want to leave my sweet muffin that long......geez I can't go 2 hours how am I supposed to do eight when I go back to work!

NerdHerder29 · November 2012

I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

Mrschica · November 2012

I have not moved from my bed... And started E's bedtime much earlier, secretly hoping DH will clean the kitchen while I put the little one to sleep!

Mrs.G123 · November 2012

NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

FTW! Lol.

Starry Again · November 2012

NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

I would do this all the time if I wasn't BFing. Bah.

I feel guilty we haven't done anything sexually in two weeks but DD has taken to cluster feeding 7:30-9:30 and when she's done so am I...

peanut823 · November 2012

This is fantastic!

Starry Again · November 2012

I feel bad but I really don't like my inlaws that much and I think part of the reason is that they are fat and slovenly They eat all my food, don't lift a finger around the house, make grunts when they stand up and sit down, sleep apnea so bad I can hear the snoring 3 rooms away... I am pretty sure I am mainly worried DD will follow their example and develop unhealthy habits.

I realize this is not good at all to feel this way and I am just venting here. I am just so tired from this weekend...

Mrschica · November 2012

NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

you are my hero lol

Mrschica · November 2012

Starry Again:
I feel bad but I really don't like my inlaws that much and I think part of the reason is that they are fat and slovenly They eat all my food, don't lift a finger around the house, make grunts when they stand up and sit down, sleep apnea so bad I can hear the snoring 3 rooms away... I am pretty sure I am mainly worried DD will follow their example and develop unhealthy habits.
I realize this is not good at all to feel this way and I am just venting here. I am just so tired from this weekend...

i feel the same way about mine. They do nothing all day and eat with their mouths open and scream to each other instead of speaking like adults. I wish my parents lived in NY so I could have someone other than my ILs to babysit.

hboo2011 · November 2012

NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

I'm literally about to go do this for the exact same purpose. Although I'm way better at bj than hj. So it'll prob be that.

[Deleted User] · November 2012

Starry Again:
NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.
 
I would do this all the time if I wasn't BFing. Bah.
I feel guilty we haven't done anything sexually in two weeks but DD has taken to cluster feeding 7:30-9:30 and when she's done so am I... 

Now I feel REALLY bad since we haven't done anything since before the baby was born....

CnAnA · November 2012

I let Alice fuss more than I usually would this morning so she would wake up Husband. He pissed me off at the 3:00am feeding so I let her fuss at 6:00 when she was ready for more food. He woke up, but I ended up feeding her. She never did go back down, and he got up with her at 7. I slept till 9:45. It was fabulous.

CnAnA · November 2012

MrsNorry:
Starry Again:
NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.
 
I would do this all the time if I wasn't BFing. Bah.
I feel guilty we haven't done anything sexually in two weeks but DD has taken to cluster feeding 7:30-9:30 and when she's done so am I... 

Now I feel REALLY bad since we haven't done anything since before the baby was born....

HA! Same here.

Olivebeinmamma · November 2012

NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

I would totally do this ifMH actually did more around the house without me nagging b!tching, and complaining until it got done.

I have nothing to say for real talk for fear of it becoming a vent. But I do secretly not want to pay the cable until it gets shut off and then tell MH we can't afford it with him staying home with the kids. Maybe that will get his butt off the couch.

jillybean800 · November 2012

MrsNorry:
Starry Again:
NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

I would do this all the time if I wasn't BFing. Bah.
I feel guilty we haven't done anything sexually in two weeks but DD has taken to cluster feeding 7:30-9:30 and when she's done so am I...
Now I feel REALLY bad since we haven't done anything since before the baby was born....

Ha, no worries. I was put on pelvic rest for bleeding, so we haven't done anything since I got pregnant! Plenty of time for that later.

nealbl · November 2012

I have been cleaning like crazy. Tomorrow Nora will be baptized and we are having everyone to our house after. Cookies brownies and my favorite yummy soup all made!

Mrs_Lady · November 2012

Earlier this week at our 5a feeding faked having to use the bathroom so DH could bottlefeed bm and burb LO. I came in room and went to sleep for an hour

I'm awful

Dana327 · November 2012

My DH still hasn't changed a diaper and I do not know how to make him do it but as payback I haven't done him any favors (sexually) since giving birth.

Mrschica · November 2012

MrsNorry:
Starry Again:
NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

I would do this all the time if I wasn't BFing. Bah.
I feel guilty we haven't done anything sexually in two weeks but DD has taken to cluster feeding 7:30-9:30 and when she's done so am I...
Now I feel REALLY bad since we haven't done anything since before the baby was born....

No sex or sexual favors since BFP, thank GOD we have a cute child or the guy would have rushed out the door a long time ago haha

Mrs.G123 · November 2012

Dana327:
My DH still hasn't changed a diaper and I do not know how to make him do it but as payback I haven't done him any favors sexually since giving birth. nbsp;

How the hell has he not changed any diapers?! What?!

danienross · November 2012

I'm not sure I love my dad anymore. Everything he says or does ticks me off. He's said so many horrible things to me only to turn around and accuse me of making everything up and blaming me for our lousy relationship. I'm just done. Yes I realize he's my father but I just don't have any positive feelings toward him anymore.

Wow that felt good to get that off my chest.

Olivebeinmamma · November 2012

danienross:
I'm not sure I love my dad anymore. Everything he says or does ticks me off. He's said so many horrible things to me only to turn around and accuse me of making everything up and blaming me for our lousy relationship. I'm just done. Yes I realize he's my father but I just don't have any positive feelings toward him anymore.

Wow that felt good to get that off my chest.

Me neither... Hugs. Sometimes it's more of a weight lifted to just realize that.

Olivebeinmamma · November 2012

Mrs.G123:
Dana327:
My DH still hasn't changed a diaper and I do not know how to make him do it but as payback I haven't done him any favors sexually since giving birth. nbsp;

How the hell has he not changed any diapers?! What?!

MH has it changed maybe 2 diapers up until this weekend. LO is getting bigger and not so squished up anymore so he feels more comfortable with him.

Mrs.G123 · November 2012

Olivebeinmamma:
Mrs.G123:
Dana327:
My DH still hasn't changed a diaper and I do not know how to make him do it but as payback I haven't done him any favors sexually since giving birth. nbsp;

How the hell has he not changed any diapers?! What?!

MH has it changed maybe 2 diapers up until this weekend. LO is getting bigger and not so squished up anymore so he feels more comfortable with him.

Y'all have much more patience than I have!

Sarelnad · November 2012

NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

I'm shocked! Hand jobs aren't worth a dime round here. A BJ carries a much higher currency! My DH would probably decline a hand job even if it was free. Maybe I give really bad hand jobs! Lol don't care. Not gonna practice!

Dana327 · November 2012

Mrs.G123:
Olivebeinmamma:
Mrs.G123:
Dana327:
My DH still hasn't changed a diaper and I do not know how to make him do it but as payback I haven't done him any favors sexually since giving birth. nbsp;

How the hell has he not changed any diapers?! What?!

MH has it changed maybe 2 diapers up until this weekend. LO is getting bigger and not so squished up anymore so he feels more comfortable with him.

Y'all have much more patience than I have!

Yes it takes A LOT of patience everyday. I think with my Dh its cultural as well as the fact that he is scared he will do something wrong.

hs10 · November 2012

I am secretly hoping that my boss will royally mess something up while I am on maternity leave, so he gets fired and I get his job. He is ridiculous and creates a bad work environment.

LSUnoelle1220 · November 2012

Do we have the same IL's??

LSUnoelle1220 · November 2012

Starry Again:
I feel bad but I really don't like my inlaws that much and I think part of the reason is that they are fat and slovenly They eat all my food, don't lift a finger around the house, make grunts when they stand up and sit down, sleep apnea so bad I can hear the snoring 3 rooms away... I am pretty sure I am mainly worried DD will follow their example and develop unhealthy habits.
I realize this is not good at all to feel this way and I am just venting here. I am just so tired from this weekend...

do we have the same IL's? 2 weeks down, one to go!

Rennan7 · November 2012

I can't believe some of your dh's never/hardly ever change diapers! My dh can only use one arm and he changes at least 30 of the diapers! And that's because I stay at home with dd more right now! I'm so lucky to have him, he's amazing and could totally put some people with their lame excuses to shame! ;

Starry Again · November 2012

Glad to hear other people aren't into sex right now. I feel like all the posts I read are "couldn't wait to get it on at 3 weeks!" or "had awesome sex last night at 5 weeks." I am trying to do something once a week but it is pretty much a chore at this point.

alyson686 · November 2012

I was really mean to DS1 this morning (not abusive or anything) and feel terrible about it. DS2 was up from 3am until 5:15, and then DS1 decided it was time to get up at 5:30. DH would have normally gotten up with him, but he was up until 5am himself finishing a project for work. I tried to bring DS1 into our bed, but he kept kicking and rolling around. Then he wanted a drink of water, so i gave him my water bottle, which he finished and then threw, hitting DS2 in the head (luckily it was empty, so it didn't hurt). I kept telling him to stop and calm down, but he wouldn't, and he threw his head back, hitting me in the face and giving me a fat lip. I yelled at him and told him that was it, he had to sit in his room by himself for a bit. I grabbed him, which I think startled him because he started to cry, and I took him to his room and put him on his bed. I felt bad that I made him cry, so I put a movie on for him and left him in his room, but then he just cried more. I was so upset and exhausted that I left him there crying for about 15-20 minutes. This lack of sleep is really getting the best of me, and now I feel like a terrible mother...

qt030603 · November 2012

MrsNorry:
Starry Again:
NerdHerder29:
I traded DH a hand job for sleep. As in, I gave him a hand job and he agreed to do all night shifts with the baby tonight.

I would do this all the time if I wasn't BFing. Bah.
I feel guilty we haven't done anything sexually in two weeks but DD has taken to cluster feeding 7:30-9:30 and when she's done so am I...
Now I feel REALLY bad since we haven't done anything since before the baby was born....

Us either, I was in the mood yesterday but then he did something a-holish and I was quickly not in the mood anymore. He hasn't mentioned anything.

Confession: I haven't mentioned that we could start having "relations" again now that it's after 6 wks. I think he thinks that I have to wait till I go to the dr (Dec 10th) and I haven't corrected him because I don't want the pressure.

MelissaNY05 · November 2012

Lmao! Ahh sexual favors. This is how I got to sleep in two days ago.

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