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Bad A/S T's&P's requested

So Baby B looks great and is a girl, but it looks like Baby A has a skeletal dysplasia. The Dr thinks its a lethal one. We had amnios done on both babies and won't know more until those results come back in 2-3 weeks. From what the dr was saying we will not be bringing 2 babies home from the hospital. He said we wont know for sure until we get the results but he started talking about reduction vs carrying to term and having baby pass shortly after birth pretty quickly. It seemed like everyone was pretty confident in what it is. They think baby A is a boy, the B/G twins I had hoped and prayed for. We are devastated and I can't even believe this is happening. I am just praying so hard that they are wrong and that it was too early for an A/S (they said there was a slim chance this was the case). Anyway, thanks for listening.
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Re: Bad A/S T's&P's requested

  • I'm so terribly sorry. I hope they're wrong and it was just too early. 
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  • I am so sorry.  I will pray for a miracle!
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  • I will keep you and baby in my thoughts. So sorry you are going through this.
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  • I am so sorry.  T, P and J's coming your way!!!

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  • I couldn't imagine being told news like this.  Fx that your amnio and A/S will show better results.  Sending lots of positive thoughts your way for Baby A.

                          

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  • I am so sorry. Sending you lots of T&P's your way and that they are wrong and it was too early.
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  • Hugs, thoughts and prayers sent your way!
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  • I'm so sorry.  I hope that they are wrong.  ((hugs))
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  • Sending you a TON of T&Ps. I would definitely seek out a 2nd opinion regardless of how much I trusted my OB/MFM. I am also praying the amnio will prove them wrong. My heart goes out to you during this very difficult time.
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  • imageRachel Goldstein:
    I would definitely seek out a 2nd opinion regardless of how much I trusted my OB/MFM.

    This. My sister just had her first A/S scan, mind you she was 21 weeks with a singleton, and was told that her baby's head was much too small compared to the rest of his body, so small that it wasn't even measuring on the chart. There are many developmental issues that could cause this (not to mention she already had one son with a genetic disorder). She was so upset, panicked, cried, worried, made herself sick which, of course, was not good for her baby but understandable.

    She got a second opinion 10 days later from Johns Hopkins and voila...her baby is perfect. I just went through this with her and it is all so fresh. I'm so sorry you're now going through this, I cannot even imagine how heartbroken you must be. Please seek a second opinion and take good care of yourself and your babies.

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  • It does seem early for an A/S.  I think most places do it around 19 weeks.  I had mine at 19w3d.  I don't know how soon they can truely detect that, and am not familiar with what it is.  I am praying it is just too early.  Sending you and your baby boy tons of T&Ps.
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  • So, so, so sorry to hear this. Heartbreaking. I agree about getting a second opinion though. 
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  • Im so sorry.  Many T&Ps
  • What devastating news.  My thoughts are with you and your family.
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  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  I am praying for your miracle!
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  • Oh my gosh I am so sorry to hear that.  Thinking about you....
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  • I'm so, so sorry. I hope the doctor made a mistake. I will keep you in my t&p.
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  • i'm so sorry you're dealing with this. i hope that your little boy is okay.
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  • I'm so sorry my thoughts are with you.
  • Sending you thoughts and prayers.

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  • Thinking of you, hope the dr has it wrong.
    D & R were born at 37w5d.

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  • I will definitely keep you in my prayers.  Please keep us updated.

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  • thoughts and prayers going out for you and your little bambinos!
    God gave me a double portion for my inheritance with my little Mighty men :) 9/19/10 Baby A born at 1:47 am 6lbs 14oz, 20.5inches long. Baby B born at 3:20 am 6lbs 6oz, 19.5inches long. My double blessing!:)
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  • So sorry that you are going through this! I hope that they are wrong and you get to take home 2 healthy babies! I will keep you and your sweet babies in my thoughts and prayers!
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  • I'm so sorry. Praying for your sweet baby.
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  • Prayers for a miracle for you and your babies. Keep us updated!
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  • Sending many thoughts and prayers your way!
  • T&Ps for you and your babies. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
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  • Praying for you <3
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  • I am so sorry. I hope it was too early and all your worry was for nothing when you get the results in a couple of weeks.  big hugs to you. 
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