My natural birth story!
At my appt. on 11/1, I was 39 wks 1 day. My blood pressure had been
creeping up over the last few weeks and, unfortunately, was 165/105 that
morning. My doctor looked at me, said "you're done", and was
immediately on the phone with labor and delivery setting up my
induction. I had been induced with my son 2.5 years earlier for the
exact same reason at 39 wks and 1 day. I really wanted to go into labor
on my own this time, but it wasn't in the cards. My husband and I got to
L&D at about 10:30 am and meet with the midwife who was on for the day. I
told her I really wanted to avoid pitocin this time if at all possible.
Since I was already 3cm dilated, she suggested a foley bulb induction.
She inserted the bulb at 11am. It was not uncomfortable at all. I
just felt some pressure, but no real pain. After it was in I was free to
walk around and could even use the bathroom. So, we hung out, ate
Italian ice and waited for the bulb to do it's thing. At 2pm it was time
for it to come out. I could already feel it slipping, which was a good
thing because that meant I was dilating further. She deflated it, took
it out, and checked me. I was 6cm! At this point, she suggested we break
my water and see if my contractions would start on their own. Boy did
they ever! Within 20 mins I was having contractions that were
about 3 to 4 mins apart. I managed pretty well with deep breathing and
walked around my room as much as possible. I tried the birthing ball,
but it was uncomfortable at this point since the baby's head was right
on my cervix.
Contractions continued to get stronger for the next 2 hrs, but I was hanging in with breathing and walking. At about
4:30, she checked me again and I was 7 to 8. I knew at this point the
epidural option was pretty much out the window. I still needed a liter
of fluid which takes about an hour in infuse, and I knew I didn't have
an hour. I was almost relieved because I really didn't want to get the
epidural. I had a sense that things were moving quick at this point. I
asked to get in the whirlpool thinking that might help me relax and
dilate even faster, I think it would have felt great had I not been
going through transition! I have never experienced anything more
intense. The water was nice, but my contractions were so close and
strong at that point that relaxing was just not possible. I started to
break at that point and told my husband to tell the midwife I wanted
meds - anything! He came back in and said she needed to check me first. I
was feeling so much pressure that I knew I had to be completely dilated
and wasn't going to be getting meds.
I managed to get out of the tub and back to my labor room while
having the most intense contractions I have ever experienced! I had an
epidural with my previous delivery and was feeling no pain by 10cm. She
checked me and, sure enough, it was time to push. I just remember
thinking, "this is what you wanted - a med free delivery." I don't know
if deep down I really didn't think I'd be able to do it, but I couldn't believe that I was about to push a baby out with nothing for
pain on board. I just kept saying, "I don't know what to do" over and
over. Then, wham, urge to push hit, I was so loud and vocal! I kept
apologizing between pushes. Pushing hurt, but the pressure is more
memorable. I never could have expected that! I pushed a few times and
then felt the baby slide underneath my pubic bone. Next thing I knew my
midwife told me the head was out. I don't recall the "ring of fire",
just intense, intense pressure. I kept telling her, "get the rest out,
just get the rest out!" The shoulders were the toughest most painful
part, but then it was just instant relief! We didn't know the gender and
my eyes were closed. My midwife said, "look down and see what you
have." A girl! I had the biggest adrenaline rush and could not believe I
had just done that. It was amazing! Baby girl was born at 6:02pm. No
meds, no IV, no tears or stitches. Recovery was so much easier this time
around.
Med free birth was the most intense experience of my life but, looking back, it was awesome. I wouldn't change a thing!
Re: Med Free Induction - XP from Nov 2012
My super all about me birth story:
Then: Fraternal twins born at 26 weeks in 1983. Me: 640 grams. Brother: 840 grams. Family kept watch in the NICU for 5 months before being allowed to go home. On oxygen for a year and a half after being released.
Now: Me: PhD student and married. Brother: Lawyer and married.
Dad's wedding speech: Thank you to all the family who stood watch and prayed for our children's survival. Well now the little scrawny chicken is married. Who would've thought? (Thanks dad for making me laugh and cry at the same time).
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DD#1 December '12
DD#2 New Year's Baby '15
Married 07/09