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Sister in law & Mother in law conflict

Aprilbaby92Aprilbaby92
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They're arguing upstairs right now because she failed one of her college classes.
I bet the whole neighborhood can hear them.
She's only 20 weeks pregnant, I honestly don't think she needs to be arguing with her mother right now. stressing over stuff like this when she's pregnant isn't good for her or the baby.
Not to mention it took her 4 years to even get pregnant.

Should I say something to them? I don't feel like it's my place to, but I'm worried about her and her baby's well being. They're screaming at the top of their lungs.
Even hearing them argue is stressing me out!
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Re: Sister in law & Mother in law conflict

  • ASmallWonderASmallWonder member
    I'm taking a random guess as to her age only because you said she's been trying to get pregnant for 4 year.  That makes me think she's well into adulthood and in that case, unless her mother is paying for her education, she needs to chillax.  However, I'd butt out.  Yeah, stress isn't great but a little yelling really isn't going to kill anyone.
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  • lucy11111lucy11111 member
    I would stay out of it.
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  • Aprilbaby92Aprilbaby92
    She's only 3 years older than me actually.
    and they've been arguing since 10am, I don't think the neighbors appreciate screaming & yelling at 10am on a Saturday morning.
    She's had so many complications with her pregnancy already, I'm just worried for them both.
    Then again, I should be used to them arguing like this.
    they would fight over the color of the label on a peanut butter jar if they could lol.

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  • rnfromtnrnfromtn member
    I would quietly leave.  Stay out of it.  And go have a relaxing afternoon walking around the mall or BRU or something.
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  • Aprilbaby92Aprilbaby92
    That sounds like a wonderful idea :)
    I need to go shopping anyways.
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  • Mrs.DeliaMariePMrs.DeliaMarieP member

    imageelmoali:
    I'm taking a random guess as to her age only because you said she's been trying to get pregnant for 4 year.  That makes me think she's well into adulthood and in that case, unless her mother is paying for her education, she needs to chillax.  However, I'd butt out.  Yeah, stress isn't great but a little yelling really isn't going to kill anyone.

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  • sugargalsugargal

    I'd stay out of it, get out of the house.  Then I'd take SIL out of a treat afterwords and try to calm her down and get her to relax. Good luck! 

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