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SIL VENT
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My favorite cousin is getting married this weekend in Alabama, a six hour drive. As much as I want to be there, I decided not to put the stress on myself and the babies, who are about 6 weeks. I know it's possible, but I'm not doing it. My SIL keeps telling me we should go and it will be fine. I told her it will be too stressful, especially since they are going through another growth spurt and they want to nurse all.the.time! She said she is going and she has to breast feed too, her 10
month old, as if that's even
comparable! She also told me about a time when they took their six week old on a 3 hour trip and he was just fine. That's one baby, not two. Arrg, I wish she would quit giving me crap and acting like she knows how it is. I'm just annoyed, thats all! Thanks for reading.
month old, as if that's even
comparable! She also told me about a time when they took their six week old on a 3 hour trip and he was just fine. That's one baby, not two. Arrg, I wish she would quit giving me crap and acting like she knows how it is. I'm just annoyed, thats all! Thanks for reading.
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Re: SIL VENT
I don't blame you. With my oldest, it would have been doable. With the babies, no way.
You're doing the right thing. Do not feel bad!!!!
This. People don't tend to think about the aftermath of an event like that. Sure you could probably do it, and be a complete wreck while you are there. Then you still have to come home and put all the peices back together. Not worth it in my opinion
When the babes are older and you/SO have a comfortable handle on things...then consider it..but right now...tell her she can represent you 
This. People don't tend to think about the aftermath of an event like that. Sure you could probably do it, and be a complete wreck while you are there. Then you still have to come home and put all the peices back together. Not worth it in my opinion
When the babes are older and you/SO have a comfortable handle on things...then consider it..but right now...tell her she can represent you 
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k my twins are 2.5 and the thought of driving 6 hours with them makes me nauseous! At 7 months we tried to go visit my bro (about 4hours away). yeah we didn't even get out the door! We routinely visit my in-laws an hour away and that is more than enough for me thank you very much!
At six weeks it was a miracle we got anywhere. Don't sweat it.