Tonight I attended my BFF's gender reveal party! She will be welcoming her second baby girl in April! I had so much fun and it was so wonderful to be part of this moment in her life. Now I am pinning all these ideas to a secret board on Pinterest. Has anyone else considered doing a gender reveal party? Just think... in 12-16 weeks we will all be finding out the genders of our little firecrackers!
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These are my thoughts exactly.
There were 10 people there, tops (not including our kids). We're a very tight knit (and small!) moms group. Definitely not saying there should be an invite list as long as a wedding haha.
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Yes, I agree! It should be a small party for close friends and family, not anything like my showers for DS.
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I may be in the minority here but I feel like these come across as so contrived and awkward. I think we will probably just call our siblings and parents to let them know but I don't envision getting a ton of people together to announce if it's a boy or girl. I also get up in arms that it's technically a sex reveal, not gender reveal ;-)
If it is your thing, I think it's best to keep it small and not make it a huge awkward production. Not to be offensive, but it's likely your immediate family and very close friends are the only ones who would truly be interested and even they probably don't need the huge buildup.
A good friend had the results sealed in an envelope and she and her husband opened it at their shower. He got all teary - it was adorable. I loved how they did it! It wasn't a big separate event just for the gender reveal, and the shower was pretty intimate as it was, so it was really cool for family & close friends to be able to share in that moment.
I don't know how we'll announce the sex; we haven't really thought that far ahead yet, just getting through first tri for now. But I imagine we'll find out ourselves privately, and then not make a big spectacle out of the announcement.
ETA: I think a few people were kind of pissed that they did find out the sex, but couldn't shop for it before the shower. But meh, I don't really care about that. I'd rather have mostly gender-neutral things anyway.
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