I'm looking for an in-home daycare in Delaware too... the sitter I had for my daughter moved and we've been using after-school care since she's in elementary school. Need to find a good one for the new baby on the way!
Daughter Emily - 10/28/03, and baby on the way makes 4!
I've never had much luck with with in home daycares or daycare centers. I feel more comfortable with a one on one setting that a nanny provides. Not sure if this is an option for you, but going through an agency (east wind nannies is an awesome one) is absolutely a lifesaver. It takes the stress out of the nanny search.
Re: Delaware area childcare