so my best friend in the whole wide world told me he want to be "daddy" and get married asap even though he is not the father so happy i finally found some one that loves my baby the way i do! i couldnt imagine being married too a better man<3
<b>edited by:</b> mercyholmes at 8:19 PM (GMT -6) on Sat, Nov 24 2012
never mind ladies. didnt work out. single 19 pregnant no job and no insurace. woot what a life. ill figure it out
Re: great news singles!
thank you and what a cute little one you have there
I second this.
It's stupid to marry anyone just because you're pregnant. But it's really stupid to marry someone who you aren't even dating just because you think your baby needs a father.
Don't jump into anything.
I need a new board. some of the recent posts have my eyes rolling! I dont post much but now i know why all the regulars have disapeared
I agree.
Just to give you another view of how this situation could ultimately turn out...
My DH was that guy who married the pregnant girl he wasn't dating so the child would not be "fatherless." That marriage lasted about a year and then she ran off with another guy. They got divorced and then he met me. We sued her for custody of the child and won. Him not being the "biological father" did not make a difference. So now the child does have an amazing father, but the mom now only sees the child every month or so. So think about this before you start having people sign your child's birth certificate. He doesn't just stop being the "daddy" if you decide you don't want him to be anymore.