Late Term and Child Loss

Recommend a Loss Book

Hey all.

I'm currently about 3/4 of the way through Empty Cradle, Broken Heart. I think it's been helpful, but I was looking for more out of it. Perhaps my expectations were too high...

Anywho, if anyone has read a book about late pregnancy loss (or anything about a loss really) that has helped you, please recommend it!  Obviously I have some time on my hands and wouldn't mind reading a helpful book. 

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Re: Recommend a Loss Book

  • I lost my daughter on Oct 17, 2012 due to a cord accident at 36 weeks. I have been in shock and did a lot of rearing and research on INET. Yesterday, I got "Love, Mom" in the mail and I read the whole book today. I know that no book can relief my pain but it was good to read a story of a lady who has been in my shoes.

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  • I couldn't get through Empty Cradle, Broken Heart, it wasn't really for me. I really liked An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination: A Memoir. It's a memoir of someone who's going through the same things we are. It wasn't a "how to manage your grief book"...it was a real woman who I could relate to.

    https://www.amazon.com/An-Exact-Replica-Figment-Imagination/dp/B004WB19VC

    Jillian Rose- born 8/26/12 at 24 weeks. "It broke my heart to lose you but you didn't go alone, for a part of me went with you, the day God took you home"
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  • I wholeheartedly agree with nola and lolee. I read "An Exact Replica of a Figment of my Imagination" in one sitting. I could not put it down. The things she said were spot on.

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

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    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • I lost my son, Isaac, on October 16, 2012.  My husband and I read "I Will Carry You," by Angie Smith.  Definitely a great book!
  • I'm going to ditto An Exact Replica of a Figment of my Imagination.

    However, it took me WEEKS to get through it.  It was intense and emotional, and I had to pause quite a bit and come back a few days later.  I read it immediately after the loss and will read it again.

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  • Thanks everyone! I'll be checking out many of those books!

    Looks like I'll have something to distract me from the holidays... 

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • I'm so glad for this post, I was looking for recommendations as well. I read Empty Cradle, Broken Heart and wanted more out of it as well.  
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    BFP#1 - 11/27/09 EDD 8/5/10, DS1 arrived 7/24/10 via emergency c-section.

    BFP#2 - 6/18/12 EDD 2/23/13, sweet baby girl born sleeping on 10/4/12 at 19 weeks, 3 days.

    BFP #3 - 1/18/13 EDD 10/1/13, natural mc on 2/2/13 at 5 weeks, 4 days.

    BFP #4 - 8/29/13 EDD 5/12/14, our sweet rainbow, DS2 born 4/29/14 via c-section

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