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When would SS go back?

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I've posted here before but my computer crashed and I can't remember my password and the bump is taking for.ev.er to email me my password.

Anyway, the CO says for Thanksgiving this year DH gets SS the day he is released from school and must be returned the Sunday following Thanksgiving. On a normal weekend we get SS EOW Fri-Wed. The weekend following Thanksgiving falls on DH's normal weekend so does SS go back Sunday or Wednesday?

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Re: When would SS go back?

  • kimmygirl77kimmygirl77 member
    After "holiday time" you should go back to regular scheduled programming. So if holiday time ends on a sunday where your DH would already have him, he goes back on wednesday.
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    imagekimmygirl77:
    After "holiday time" you should go back to regular scheduled programming. So if holiday time ends on a sunday where your DH would already have him, he goes back on wednesday.

    This is how our attorney told us to operate, too. 

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  • Sunday924Sunday924 member
    Ok good that is what I was thinking I just wanted to make sure because BM txt DH yesterday asking if she was picking up SS at 6 or he was dropping SS off. When DH told her she was incorrect and he would be staying until Wednesday and explained why she turned it into this huge fight and won't let it go. She said she is calling her lawyer Monday so hopefully he sets her straight. We got a letter from her lawyer (lawyer # 3) telling us he dropped BM so I'm not sure who this mystery lawyer # 4 is.
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  • Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member
    I would agree with the PPs. After a set holiday, schedule resumes normal. Like in the summer when BD has DD for July. If July 31st falls during his normal weekend visitation, I would get her from him after that weekend.
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  • risadawnrisadawn
    Oh my gosh! These crazy BM's are everywhere!  My DH is having issues with his ex regarding Veteran's Day!  Ugh!  What is wrong with these women??
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  • NDSalesGirlNDSalesGirl
    imageOoglybear:

    imagekimmygirl77:
    After "holiday time" you should go back to regular scheduled programming. So if holiday time ends on a sunday where your DH would already have him, he goes back on wednesday.

    This is how our attorney told us to operate, too. 

    This is how ours states as well, except that he has to be back to BM by 8pm the day before school starts again.

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  • CFjo2010CFjo2010 member

    imagerisadawn:
    Oh my gosh! These crazy BM's are everywhere!  My DH is having issues with his ex regarding Veteran's Day!  Ugh!  What is wrong with these women??

    Totally hijacking OP's post, but is the issue regarding Veteran's Day about it being observed on Monday since it lands on Sunday?  I have a feeling we're about to have the same issue with BM...

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    imageSunday924:
    Ok good that is what I was thinking I just wanted to make sure because BM txt DH yesterday asking if she was picking up SS at 6 or he was dropping SS off. When DH told her she was incorrect and he would be staying until Wednesday and explained why she turned it into this huge fight and won't let it go. She said she is calling her lawyer Monday so hopefully he sets her straight. We got a letter from her lawyer (lawyer # 3) telling us he dropped BM so I'm not sure who this mystery lawyer # 4 is.

    Probably whoever she finds to tell her what she wants to hear...

    The standard practice is that the holiday schedule supercedes the normal visitation schedule.  Once the times/days set forth in the holiday schedule have passed, then the normal visitation schedule kicks back in. 

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  • twister22twister22 member
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    imageSunday924:
    Ok good that is what I was thinking I just wanted to make sure because BM txt DH yesterday asking if she was picking up SS at 6 or he was dropping SS off. When DH told her she was incorrect and he would be staying until Wednesday and explained why she turned it into this huge fight and won't let it go. She said she is calling her lawyer Monday so hopefully he sets her straight. We got a letter from her lawyer (lawyer # 3) telling us he dropped BM so I'm not sure who this mystery lawyer # 4 is.

    Probably whoever she finds to tell her what she wants to hear...

    The standard practice is that the holiday schedule supercedes the normal visitation schedule.  Once the times/days set forth in the holiday schedule have passed, then the normal visitation schedule kicks back in. 

    Agreed. Your DH is correct, he gets SS until Wednesday. I have a feeling BM knows this too, because she was trying to manipulate things by saying "Are you dropping SS off or am I picking him up?" Maybe I'm wrong, but that's the feeling I get. 

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  • Sunday924Sunday924 member

    We never talk about things this early out so I think she knew he was going to try to keep him through Wednesday and she was going to do everything in her power to prevent that. The way it falls we get SS the 9th - 28th with her only getting two days in that time and she's not happy about that. But even though DH is right she doesn't seem to be giving up the fight. I wouldn't be suprised if she a) she calls the cops on Sunday or b) she picks him up from school Monday afternoon.

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