TTC After a Loss

Annoying DH

So I kinda want my DH to leave or go outside or at least turn the effing tv channel.  Im in the library and he is in the living room watching the movie "Knocked Up" It just makes me sad hearing them talk about pregnancies. He knows that I still have a hard time watching those kinds of shows so it is just very irritating. I just don't feel like making a fuss about him turing the channel today either. I'm too emotionally drained and tirred from shoveling our *** ton of snow we got on friday night.  Ugh think I'm going to go stand in the hot shower till he's done watching tv.

Re: Annoying DH

  • Sometimes hubbies just don't think. Sorry he's not getting it today. Also sorry for the crapton of snow! It's way too early for that!
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  • Saw that movie was on and quickly changed it. Sorry hubby isn't thinking! Sometimes they just don't get it. Hope the evening gets better!
  • I'm sorry. Big ((hugs)). Sometimes they just don't think, not that it makes it any easier. If DH is bugging me like that, I will go up into my spare room/office, put on some music with headphones and do something I like - scrapbooking, yoga, dancing around, whatever I feel like at the time. I hope that you can find something that works for you (or DH turns off the TV)


  • Ugh! I hate that movie. I've always hated movies that have ridiculous, totally not normal, and medically false stories of pregnancy or birth and I'm sure seeing or hearing a movie like that now after my loss would make me very upset too. I'm sure he really just isn't thinking. He's probably just watching mindlessly(I do that lots of times). I hope he turns it off or you can find a spot where you don't have to listen to that. If you don't feel like bringing it up now with him, maybe later you can tell him that it's hard for you to listen to stuff like that? I think a hot shower is a good idea though and could be relaxing! ((Hug))
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  • They just don't get it. Mine had the nerve to say "Cheer up buttercup!" today, 2 days after we found out about my "chemical pregnancy."  They're so oblivious!  Then he tells me that I've been an emotional roller coaster.  Well duh!

     You better be getting a massage tonight :) 

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  • Ugh DHs sometimes, seriously! They can be so oblivious to emotions! So sorry!


  • My DH doesn't get it either....I am sorry you are having a rough day, I hope the shower helps ((hugs))

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