anyone else at 9 months ttc?

Re: anyone else at 9 months ttc?

• sunlavender member

  November 2012

  Waiting to 0 (aka zero), is a very serious thing.  I would have that checked out by my doctor ASAP.

  

  Trying to get knocked up since June 2012 ~ Dx: PCOS

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• tfmt

  November 2012

  I am at month 13... there have definitely been some stressful months in the past year. The doctor says we are healthy, which to me was almost worse than hearing something was wrong. I felt like it took away any control i had over the situation. I thought at 9 months there should have been something wrong if it was taking so long! But after a m/c in August I feel like now at least I know it can happen and hopefully the next one sticks.
  
  LOTS of luck and patience to you. Try not to stress, i know its much easier said than done but a little effort to relax yourself goes a long way :

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• Twinkie0612 member

  November 2012

  Nope.  I'm on month 15 and frustrated.

  

   

  

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• CMSullivan326 member

  November 2012

  I wish I could remember month 9....I've gotten pregnant twice while TFAS, but have nothing to show for it. We've been trying since Dec 2010 but if you take out the pregnancies and the 4 month break we took, we're on month 15...
  Yay O_o

  *Evan Michael*
  

  {06/15/2010 ~ 9lbs. 4oz, 22.5in.}

  *Twin Angel Babies*

  {Said Goodbye on 08/13/2011 at 17w3d}

  No longer TTC

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• maria.chris2010 member

  November 2012

  Thanks, lavender. You're a gem. I guess I was just hoping to find a fellow nine monther to chat with. Maybe I should look elsewhere.

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• sunlavender member

  November 2012

  maria.chris2010:

  Thanks, lavender. You're a gem. I guess I was just hoping to find a fellow nine monther to chat with. Maybe I should look elsewhere.

  

  

  Trying to get knocked up since June 2012 ~ Dx: PCOS

  BFP 7.24.13 ~ EDD 4.2.14 ~ m/c  9.16.13 @ 11w4d

  BFP 5.4.14 ~ EDD 1.12.15 ~ stick little bean!

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• Mochadoodle member

  November 2012

  I'm waiting to O, too. DH and I have been TTC since June 2011.

  There's probably nothing wrong with you. Honestly, I would just try to relax. You may have heard this already, but it can take up to a year for a perfectly healthy couple to find success.

  I know how upsetting it can be to watch everyone else become pregnant. My SIL is currently pregnant with their third child. My cousin is now pregnant with their first. I'm very happy for them, but it is frustrating.

  Don't worry. Relax. GL!

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  TTC #1 since 06.2011 Me-24 DH-24

  12.2011 SA = Normal

  06.2012 First visit with OB/GYN

  10.2012 Clomid 50mg + TI = BFN

  11.2012 Clomid 50mg + TI = BFN

  12.2012 Clomid 100mg + TI = BFN

  01.2013 First visit with RE

  02.2013 Clomid 150mg + TI = BFN

  03.2013 Femara 5mg + TI = BFN

  05.2013 Femara 5mg + TI = BFN

  06.2013 Femara 7.5mg + TI = BFN

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• maria.chris2010 member

  November 2012

  CLECyclist:

  maria.chris2010:

  Thanks, lavender. You're a gem. I guess I was just hoping to find a fellow nine monther to chat with. Maybe I should look elsewhere.

  Oh, do be quiet. If you're that butthurt by what she said, yeah. You probably need to look elsewhere.
  

  it was sarcasm, not tears.

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• JustWonderin805 member

  November 2012

  maria.chris2010:

  CLECyclist:

  maria.chris2010:

  Thanks, lavender. You're a gem. I guess I was just hoping to find a fellow nine monther to chat with. Maybe I should look elsewhere.

  Oh, do be quiet. If you're that butthurt by what she said, yeah. You probably need to look elsewhere.
  

  it was sarcasm, not tears.

  Who said being butthurt involved tears?

  Where's butthurt bingo? 

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• PrimRoseMama member

  November 2012

  Not at month 9. Just started TTC for number 2 in August 2012. It can take a year for a healthy couple with perfect timing. Don't lose heart! Good luck.
  
  There are plenty of people who get month 9 to 12 BFP's. I'm sure in a website this big there is bound to be someone on month 9.
  
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• CiderWench member

  November 2012

  maria.chris2010:

  Thanks, lavender. You're a gem. I guess I was just hoping to find a fellow nine monther to chat with. Maybe I should look elsewhere.

   
  

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• CMSullivan326 member

  November 2012

  maria.chris2010:

  CLECyclist:

  maria.chris2010:

  Thanks, lavender. You're a gem. I guess I was just hoping to find a fellow nine monther to chat with. Maybe I should look elsewhere.

  Oh, do be quiet. If you're that butthurt by what she said, yeah. You probably need to look elsewhere.
  

  it was sarcasm, not tears.

  
  Well, aren't you a feisty little newb...

  *Evan Michael*
  

  {06/15/2010 ~ 9lbs. 4oz, 22.5in.}

  *Twin Angel Babies*

  {Said Goodbye on 08/13/2011 at 17w3d}

  No longer TTC

  *~Kisses to My Bestie Boo, ScrappyLika~*
  

  
  

  
  

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• DLC516 member

  November 2012

  I was getting so frustrated I stopped counting the months. It's been under a year I know that and I also know now that it is normal for it not to happen right away. I understand your frustration, last month I was 3 days late for AF, or so I thought. I was convinced I was pregnant! Sure enough AF came and I was devastated. I was stressing so much about getting pregnant I think it made me O late. So this month we decided to have sex when we have sex and carry on with our lives like we are not TTC. It's hard to do but sometimes the stress is just too much.
  
  Good luck to you and try and hang in there. Hopefully you will get your BFP soon!

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• lisamoe member

  November 2012

  Month 9, here.

  I got pg with my DS on month 4, so I've been down in the dumps since I was on cycle 5 that it hasn't happened yet.

  For sure, every month is upsetting when it doesn't happen.  But, try to stay positive, and like others said it can take 1 yr for a normal couple to get pg.

  I've been stressed lately and decided to take a month off of temping/charting to see if I feel better by  not thinking about it every.second.of. the. day.

  GL!

  

   

  

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• ninibee9

  November 2012

  9 months here.... some months are easy and others I am a total mess.  Right now hubs and I are hopeful.  

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• Stizzle

  November 2012

  I'm waiting to O on month 10.  I totally get it, some months are just tougher than others.  When it didn't happen last month is was harder for some reason.  I think because I know we're approaching the year mark which makes things more real (if that makes sense).  I find it helps for me to just allow myself one day to just be sad.  After that I just move on and try not to feel sorry for myself.  Good luck!

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• CNS1212 member

  November 2012

  Month 7 here.... and hoping to test at the end of the week.  I talked with my doctor after another BFN last month, and he said if we get to 9 months doing everything I'm supposed to do, and still BFN, then he said I can come in and we can start testing.  Wouldn't hurt to call your doctor and see if he feels the same way?
  

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• scgirl89 member

  November 2012

  14 or 15 months here.... I have lost track to be honest.

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• rainy369 member

  November 2012

  I'm on month 8 right now and I definitely understand where you're coming from. There are people here who have been trying for much longer but either way, it's a much harder process than I imagined. Feel free to private message me if you'd like to chat. 

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• priadean member

  November 2012

  I am in the exact same position... 9 months and waiting to O... so many people have gotten KU in the past 2 years that are friends of mine... Hubs finally gave the go ahead to try this year and I had no idea it would take us so long... Each month gets harder and harder... I have really been trying to relax this month... but it is easier said than done.  I am new to the bump and I have no idea how to do the private message thing, but I would be more than willing to chat if you are interested.  It would be nice to talk to someone in the exact position.

   This is not what I thought it would be like... I know it can take time, but it doesnt make it any easier.

  

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• priadean member

  November 2012

  I am in the exact same boat.  Feel free to private message. I am not really talking about it with many of my friends... just my closest few and it would be nice to have someone to talk to that lnows what this feels like and doesn't say... "just relax" when I get upset...  Which totally helps... right?!?  I am up and down each month as well... I began this month when I started being devastated and then moved onto okay... it will happen when it is supposed to... to now that I am getting closer to when I think  I will O... egtting suoer frustrated... These 9 months have been a roller coaster of emotions... 

  

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• Akiesha member

  November 2012

  I just passed the year mark, Its sucks that it hasn't happened yet but we are still hopeful, anyway good luck!
  

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• SCSmith2011 member

  November 2012

  Twinkie0612:

  Nope. nbsp;I'm on month 15 and frustrated.

  
  
  Ditto.

   TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
  Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.

  Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!

    

  

  

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• darjeeling member

  November 2012

  maria.chris2010:

  Thanks, lavender. You're a gem. I guess I was just hoping to find a fellow nine monther to chat with. Maybe I should look elsewhere.

  You're right! Sun IS a gem. OTOH your value, OP, remains to be seen.

  
  

  

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