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Am I?

TruNTruN
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Hey ladies. I have a question my girls are now 13months old and every since they were 8months old me and they dad separated. We separated because we were going thru tons of problems . Like finance , PDI was,turned out he wasn't a family man.lies became abusive ...anything u can name that was our issues. But anyway a few mnths down the line I found someone new. I felt it was time because when I was with the girls dad I already knew he turned out not for me. But I hear ppl say im still a single mom...how if my current bf we live together,he helps me with our girls,we just break dwn everything 50/50 but why do ppl still considers me a single mom? I feel im not a single mom. I with a man that I just didn't make kids with but we are the.parents now.
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  • jnjmommy0609jnjmommy0609
    You are single until you are married. You may not feel single because you are not alone but to change the single status means to get married
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  • TruNTruN
    imagejnjmommy0609:
    You are single until you are married. You may not feel single because you are not alone but to change the single status means to get married

    But raising my children as single im not doing that what I mean BC I have a good man whose doing everything a.parent should. So I know within law im single but, not alone with my kids
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  • Runaway22Runaway22 member
    I'd say no. You're legally single, but as far as "single parenting" goes, you don't fit the typical idea. In my opinion, anyway.

    Either way, I wouldn't worry about it. If people refer to you as a single parent often and it annoys you, just kindly remind them of the strong male figure your daughters have in their life, and while you may not be married, you're not exactly single! :smile:
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  • TruNTruN
    imageRunaway22:
    I'd say no. You're legally single, but as far as "single parenting" goes, you don't fit the typical idea. In my opinion, anyway.

    Either way, I wouldn't worry about it. If people refer to you as a single parent often and it annoys you, just kindly remind them of the strong male figure your daughters have in their life, and while you may not be married, you're not exactly single! :smile:


    I agree and this is what I meant. Thank you
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