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Moving on

OKittyOKitty member
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It's been a week since our family member called to say "She wants to place with you! Due at Thanksgiving!" We were told the eMom's case worker was doing "paperwork" now. What that involoves when they haven't even met us, I have no idea.

My heart tells me this probably won't go anywhere. I know it's only been ONE week, but it's getting down to D-day and no one has contacted us at all and we have nil of our homestudy initiated. In the best interests of our hearts, I think we need to let this go. It totally sucks saying that, but tearing my heart into pieces everytime the phone rings is only adding to my ulcer count!

So, we're gonna pack our bags for Hawaii! Well, at least plan our February trip. Time to have FUN! (BTW that's say A LOT comming from BFE Nebraska! HA!)

Thanks for the thoughts and prayers you supplied!

Trying to Add Baby #1 Since 12/2008
Dx: Unexplained Infertility
Spring 2010: 3 Clomid + TI
Jan 2011: 2 Femara IUI's
Summer 2011: 6 months of Chiropractic Therapy
March 2012: Confirmed Agency, Meeting set
July 2012: Homeopath consult (fail!)
July 2012: Start of Agency Meetings/Paperwork
October 2012: Agency Interview
February 2013: Tenative Agency Training
March 2013: Tenative Homestudy start date
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Re: Moving on

  • Allie-JoAllie-Jo member

    I'm so sorry...I know that has to be heartbreaking!  (((HUGS)))

    Just make sure to take care of yourself...Hawaii definately counts as that Wink

    TTC since June 2009 DX: PCOS October 2010
    6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
    7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
    7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
    8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
    11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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    When relaxing didn't work is my new blog!
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  • Foster1MomFoster1Mom

    Can you stuff me in your luggage? I promise I will be lots of fun. Beer

    Take care of yourself and take the time you need to process everything. 

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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    I'm sorry Sad  Have fun planning your trip, that can be a great way to de-stress.  Take care of yourself (( Hugs ))


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