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SoxFan777
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Repeat C section or VBac?
SoxFan777
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Hi,
I know it's up to the individual, but I had a REALLY tough labor last time that ended in an unplanned (but not emergency) c-section. 36 hours of labor, failure to progress, then 5 hours of pushing, than the baby got stuck. I had a c-section without too many complications. EXCEPT for the constipation afterwards... I literally couldn't go for days, thought I was pushing another baby out the rear, tearing, finally had to have the thing put in my butt (I forget what it's called)
Anyway, I'm curious... were those complications because of the C-section or because of the long labor? I'm not sure if I want to try a v-bac (only to potentially have the same set of issues) or if I should just suck it up and go with a repeat c-section (baby #2 is likely my last, if it matters).
I know everyone is different but advice and suggestions would be welcome! Thanks in advance.
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Re: Repeat C section or VBac?
I had a RCS. I chose it because 1. the closest hospital to me wont do VBAC, 2. I didn't want try for a VBAC only to end up with another CS and 3. I liked being able to plan for what to do with DD when I went into the hospital, I like being prepared.
I will say that I was induced which I believe is the cause for me ending up with a CS. The constipation happened with both births and I believe it happens to most women. The best thing to do is to start softeners and drink water and it will make it A LOT better.
I will say that if you think that you will regret not trying again then you should definitely try. Just keep an open mind just in case you are not able to deliver vaginally. I personally did not really care whether they got here through vaginal or caesarian. GL
I was majorly constipated after my c-section as well. I also had to have a suppository which I actually welcomed at that point. My hospital would not let me leave until they viewed my # 2. Seemed odd to me, but hey, whatever works for them. I didn?t want to go home all bloated anyway.
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I actually wasn't that constipated after my c/s. I went the day after I got home. No pain, no problems. But I was trying to eat as much fiber as possible, taking the stool softeners, and up walking as well.
As for VBAC vs C/S. It's really up to you. I'm currently pg and I would love to VBAC because I had a horrific c/s experience and I missed out on time with my son. I won't be able to, though, because I didn't wait the 18 months that the docs out here require. So for me, decision has been made to RCS.
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I had a semi-scheduled section (no labor, scheduled the day before because of growth issues/twins) and the constipation was awful. I had to go with a suppository too and it was still awful and I wound up being engorged at the same time I was trying to have my first poop so I was super-miserable.
My plan is to try for a VBAC this time. Even though my section wasn't a horrible experience, I would like to avoid major surgery if possible. Good luck with whatever you decide!
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If your doctor is willing to do a VBAC - talk to him/her. I am currently 28.5 (ticker is wrong) & during my last appt I finally spoke to my Doc about my labor...and found out she is one of the FEW doctors that actually does VBAC's. She asked me a few questions about my first CS & at the end basically told me it was up to me.
With my son I was induced due to high blood pressure. I labored for about 24 hours, pushed for 3, his head would NOT come down, and at that point my pressure was up, i developed a fever & I actually begged for a CS. I physically was drained! Odd as it is - once I was in the OR, I actually felt some relief...knowing that my baby was almost here. Turns out he was 9.1lbs, 22 inches, and he was just NOT coming out! lol.
So my doctor basically told me that ultimately it was up to me whether I want a RCS or VBAC. Right now I have marginal placenta previa - & as long as that corrects itself by 32 weeks I'll have an option for both. After that she said at 37 they will do a sonogram to measure my little guy and see how big he is at the point....if he is close to 9lbs at that point, she recommends a RCS at 39, BUT if i want to wait to go naturally it is up to me.
I felt very good when I left her office knowing I had options. I honestly didn't think I would. I am still undecided...I in NO way regret my CS with my first, I am not the type of woman that doesn't think she gave BIRTH because it didn't come out my Hoo-Haa! I gave birth to my son....whoever doesn't think I did can basically screw themselves. Right now I am waiting for 32 weeks to see if my placenta has moved & i'll take it from there. I have looked into all options, done my research & hubby and I have spoken about it for hours. I still don't' know what I will choose, but at the end I know at least it'll be up to me.
After all my ramblings - just speak to your Doctor, see what your options are, do your research & make a choice that you can live with and not regret.