Hi Ladies,
Let me introduce myself. I'm rlajambe.
Last May, I lost my baby girl at 21 weeks gestation after being diagnosed with an incompotent cervix. They found it during my A/S scan, but I was not a good candidate for cerclage as I was dilated too much.
I am pg again (BFP this morning). I will be having a preventative cerclage at 12-13 weeks. Due to my IC, I am automatically high risk, but I am optimistic.
I look forward to get to know you all.
Re: So here I go again (Intro)
BFP #1 - 01/12/12, EDD 09/12/12, Medical Induction @ 21 weeks 05/03/12
BFP #2 - 10/30/12, EDD 07/04/13, Natural m/c @ 5 weeks 11/01/12
BFP #3 - 02/07/13, EDD 10/12/13
Dx: Incompotent Cervix
https://m.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/69590848.aspx
This pg I had an emergent cerclage placed at 22w5d; nearly lost this baby too but thankfully cerclage is holding strong and I'm now 32w5d.
I am glad you are here! We just found out we are pregnant again (8 weeks) with our 4th pregnancy.
1st - all good
2nd - m/c 5.5 mos due to IC/down syndrome
3rd - cerclage at 14 weeks, he is currently sleeping in spiderman costume
4th - will have cerclage again
It's terrifying isn't it? It's totally stupid to say I guess but even knowing about my condition helped me so much carrying 3. You realize how very fragile the whole process is, but also how effin badass our mommy bodies are.