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it makes my heart hurt

KatieintheCityKatieintheCity member
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When I see that people who have graduated to PgAL are so quickly replaced by newbies. I hate hate hate that there are always ladies to fill this board. I wish we could all graduate and the board would just cease to exist.

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  • Mrs.E.07Mrs.E.07
    Yes seriously.

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  • pinkleopard11pinkleopard11 member
    times 10.
    TTC #1 since April 2011

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    BFP #2: November 10, 2012 -- EDD 7/22/13 -- Hudson Reid

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  • CaliforniaDream87CaliforniaDream87 member
    I agree.
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  • pkarenpkaren member
    Word. I hate it even more when ladies come back here after too short a time on PGAL too.
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    D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
    Hysteroscopy/D&C on July 10th to fix blocked cervix (DX: Cervical Stenosis)
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  • cold0009cold0009 member

    imagepkaren:
    Word. I hate it even more when ladies come back here after too short a time on PGAL too.

    This.


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  • 2redtulips2redtulips member

    It is sad that loss has to happen to any of us, that's for sure.

    I know I am thankful to have the support, although it's not a club anyone wants to join. 

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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    Yes
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • CafeAutumnMamaCafeAutumnMama
    I know what you mean. I'm glad that this board is here for newbies like me, but even in the short time I've been here I feel so sad for everyone who comes here(and almost every day there's another joining us) because I know how terrible it is. 
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  • plainoljaneplainoljane
    Ditto.
    Cosign.
    Agreed.

    And here's some chocolate. It has endorphins or something?
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    BFP #3: 11/20/12. EDD: 8/1/13. STICK BABY STICK!
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  • lindsayanne14lindsayanne14 member
    imagecold0009:

    imagepkaren:
    Word. I hate it even more when ladies come back here after too short a time on PGAL too.

    This.

    Yes Coming back here was so very hard!

    I know we've had a large number of grads recently, but it seems like we've had even more intros Sad

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  • GavinRonansMomGavinRonansMom member
    agreed...and I am a newbie Sad
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  • WSmommj WSmommj
    Amen.
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  • densquareddensquared member
    imagepkaren:
    Word. I hate it even more when ladies come back here after too short a time on PGAL too.
    This, a million times this.
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  • LaTi07LaTi07 member

    imagepkaren:
    Word. I hate it even more when ladies come back here after too short a time on PGAL too.

    Absolutely this. I'm always sorry to see new ladies join, but when one of our own has to come back...that really chaps my a**.


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    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
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  • bnugbnug
    This is a tough club to be a part of.  Everyone here is so awesome...it sucks that this is what brought us all together.
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  • lsuhoneybadgerlsuhoneybadger member
    imageLaTi07:

    imagepkaren:
    Word. I hate it even more when ladies come back here after too short a time on PGAL too.

    Absolutely this. I'm always sorry to see new ladies join, but when one of our own has to come back...that really chaps my a**.

    All of this.

    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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