Hello all. I'm new here. Just found out yesterday that my baby had stopped growing two weeks ago. They scheduled my D and C for this morning. I was feeling ok until I woke up from surgery with the cramping. Feeling that finalized it for me and I lost it. Those poor nurses didn't know what to do or say. I then began feeling a little better... Until I opened the pregnancy loss packet they sent me home with. There was a paper explaining that a local funeral home collects all remains and buries them, and to call if I wanted to know where the marked gravesite is. This did me in all over again.
I'm sorry. I don't have any questions, nor do I have any wisdom to hand out to those going through this. I'm just trying to work through everything right now.
Thank God for DH the last two days. With this happening, and my chemical pregnancy back in July, I really thought he would be rethinking the thought of having children with me. But I was wrong. He's been so supportive and asked lots of questions about when we can try again. He also assured me that 'we'll get it done.'
Ok, I'm done with my whine session. Sorry so long. Thoughts and prayers for all of you going through this as well.
BFP #1 - 07-15-12; Natural MC 07-18-12
BFP #2 - 09-29-12; U/S showed baby stopped growing @ 5wks 4days - 10-30-12; D&C - 10-31-12
BFP #3 - 04-10-13; Third time is a charm... Stick, baby, stick!!!