DH have made the choice to use gentle discipline/ AP methods with our daughter. We both come from strict, traditional families however and I wonder how and when we should have a conversation with our families. DD is approaching the age where she is starting to get into things. In my family, the approach is usually to swat little disobedient fingers not my approach. My concern is that over the holidays we might encounter someone else trying to discipline DD on a way that I wouldn't approve. Both families kind of know where we stand with spanking and I am not sure they would discipline her or not. My question is how did you all handle this with families? Sit them down and lay it all out or just model our own parenting as we go and use teaching moments with DD to educate them?
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