TWW = BFN

cuase1 · October 2012

This was cycle two in a row for IUI... and another BFN. So many times I hear about everyone getting pregnant so easily the natural way and it just tears out my heart.

Where do you find strength to go forward again?

Amandelic · October 2012

I know what you mean. I'm sorry that you got another BFN. I know for sure that my friends have gotten pregnant in their first few cycles and it's not easy for me to know this. We just had two natural cycles on our own... Both 28 days and didn't get pregnant. I was surprised to tell you the truth. I thought that one would have brought a BFP. It was silly of me to think that. I see my RE tomorrow to start the process again. The strength comes from H and my family and friends as well as my faith. It's good to be with them when things just are not going well with fertility treatments. This board helps too - lots of success stories. Hang in there. I really hope your next cycle brings you a BFP

queenbone · October 2012

I'm so sorry this one didn't work for you.

For me I think I kind of get robotic about it, or like I am on a mission to defeat IF. So after every failure, I am ready with a new game plan to try to kick IF's ass. It almost becomes more of a competition for me and I think that sometimes I lose sight of the future baby because I am at war with my body, determined to be victorious

I don't know if that is helpful/healthy, but I think that is how I end up coping. Otherwise I'd probably be a blubber mess all the time.

RoseHQ12 · October 2012

I am sooo sorry. It is very difficult to hear how easy it is for some to get pregnant especially when you are in the midst of overcoming an unsuccessful cycle. Give yourself time to heal & you will find a strength you didn't think you had to move fwd again.

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