I am soooo bummed. I just callled my doc's office to see what I could expect at my first appt. I'm getting a bunch of stupid labs. No unltra sound. No doppler. Nothing. I'm already a ball of nerves and this isn't helping. Believing I was gonna see my baby next week was keeping me sane, now I'm just depressed. I'm not even looking forward to my appointment.
When did you ladies get your 1st ultrasound? When did you hear the heartbeat. I need some encouragement folks. I didn't realize this stuff takes so freaking long!
Re: ur first ultrasound? How soon did you hear the heart beat.
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With this LO, I asked for an elective ultrasound at 8 weeks. I couldn't wait until 12 weeks. I'm not sure if insurance will cover it, but I didn't care.
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I think every medical facility/insurance is different. I know some people who have had u/s between 6-9 weeks. Some ladies won't have an u/s until week 20 when they find out the gender!
I had my first one at 4w6d (we weren't sure how far along we were due to AF being irregular) and all we saw was an empty sac. We went in 9 days later, making me 6w2d and we saw our LO and heard the heartbeat. I went in 2 weeks later because of some bleeding at 8w3d and they did an u/s just to make sure baby was okay.
I think it all depends on the circumstances. Perhaps you can just call and request one...they probably wouldn't mind -- especially if not having one is causing you to stress (which isn't good for the baby).
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I had my first appt at 6w,1d. Just labs and a basic exam. First u/s done at 7w,1d because they needed to date me and I'm high-risk. Second u/s at 7w,6d with my high-risk OB. They did doppler at my first u/s so I got to hear heartbeat. Saw the heartbeat on the second u/s and they told me he/she was 157 bpm. FINALLY having what my OB calls the "New OB" appointment tomorrow at 9w,1d. That's the full work up, third u/s, discussing birth plan, etc.
Be patient it does take a while. I've been in so much only because I'm high-risk. I got my BFP on 9/28! Got blood work done on 10/1 at my primary care doctor's office to confirm hCG levels. Had to wait until 10/10 for first OB appt where they only really did blood work and sent me on my way. First u/s was on 10/17. Second u/s on 10/22 with high-risk doctor. Just over a month later I'm finally getting my main appointment! Hang in there!
The practice I go to schedules your first appt/ pregnancy confirmation u/s between 8-10 weeks. They said its because they do not like doing it earlier than that in case you are not as far along and can't see the heartbeat yet, (which becomes even more nerve wracking!).
I had complications in the beginning of this pregnancy, so I went in at 2w2d after my BFP, but a heartbeat wasn't found until my next appt at 3w2d after my BFP.
My first appt was at 7weeks 6 days and she did a dating us where I saw but didn't hear the HB. DH and I heard the HB on Sunday and 8 weeks 4 days using my home Doppler! Best sound ever! I recorded it on my phone and listen to it often!
Waiting is so hard but just try to stay busy with other things. It also doesn't hurt to ask for an US?
I've still not HEARD the hb, but I've seen it. It can't be heard on Doppler for weeks yet, what people hear at appts now is a computer interpretation of the heartrate. The hearts are just too tiny now for machines to pick up the sound.
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I thought my 1st real appt would include an u/s as well. DH even took the day off of work to go with me. Well, all they did was a pelvic exam & review my blood work. Like you, I was pretty bummed & stressed.
I ended up getting my 1st u/s at 9wks. Afterward, I was actually pretty happy they waited! Our baby looked like a little gummy bear, with arm & leg nubs. There was no risk of seeing an empty sac because I was far enough along (because that would have stressed me out even more, although I know it's common that early on).
Now I'm just waiting for a doppler so I can hear the heart beat!!
Hang in there & do your best to stay patient. As PP suggested, just assume everything is okay & take it day by day. That's what I did & those couple weeks flew by! GL!
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My second pregnancy, I only had one at 11 weeks due to spotting. It ended in a partial Molar pregnancy. Loss at 11 weeks.
My third pregnancy, because of my history, I had an ultrasound at 6/7 weeks to confirm. The normal one at 1620 weeks. Then I also had one at 32 weeks because I had placenta previa that ended up correcting itself and also fibroids that had to be monitored.
My current pregnancy, I just had one yesterday at 7 weeks 5 days to confirm. It was not scheduled when I made the appt, but doc squeezed us in that day because of my history with the Molar pregnancy. My symptoms were very similar to the Molar so doc made sure it was done that day. So far all looking good! I do have fibroids again, so hopefully I will get more ultrasounds to monitor!
I have my first appointment Thursday at 9w2d. They said I will be getting an u/s, blood work & pelvic exam. They wouldn't see me before 8 weeks though.
I have one next Wednesday at 7 weeks. It's only because I am already high risk with diabetes, so they have to monitor me fairly closely.
With DS, I wouldn't have had an U/S until 20 weeks, but I had some bleeding, so they went ahead and sent me in at 8 weeks 3 days.
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